How do you get rid of your mothers selfish boyfriend???

Answer 1

first, talk to her about it. if that doesnt work. (which it very well may not, if she is in love shes likely not to see what you see) do or say something that will embarress or gross him out or turn him off and make him never want to come back again.

Answer 2

Whoa, if you acutally did get rid of him you might not like the
result. What will it do to your mother? How will she react? Do you have the next male distraction ready and waiting to take her
mind off the one she just lost?
Try talking to this mother's boyfriend about his selfishness. Site instances where he was selfish. Point out what a person who is not selfish would have done instead. Ask him directly what he intends to gain from his relationship with your mother. You know, its just like the father of a daughter would want to know what are the young mans intentions whose dating his daughter. Talk turkey with him.
People who have good intentions are able to declare that right
away and some are articulate about it. For instance , I see you
as my neighbor we share the same planet, perhaps the same
continent, maybe even the same state . My intentions toward you
are to help. See how easy and clear that was for me to answer.

Then again he may not even know what his intentions are. He may only know me man, she woman, we go together and that's just the way it is. He may not have thought beyond that.

If after talking turkey with him, you feel he's in it just to receive and there's no ring for your mother at the end of his intentions toward her, first let your mother know how you feel, tell her what you see from your prospective . She knows you love her and will keep an eye open. If she starts to agree and see's the light, give her time to work it out with him. And if she decides
he's just no good she'll get rid of him herself.

Answer 3

If he's truly that bad. His selfishness will shine through. Your mom may not notice his selfishness with her, but, create a scenario where he shows it with you for your mother to witness. Parents usually see what real and what's not when it comes to their kids being affected.

Answer 4

You can't. Your mother has to do this. Hopefully if he is selfish she will eventually see it, but she is an adult and responsible for her own actions. Pointing the boyfriends faults out to her may only make her angry towards yourself. Just give the boyfriend enough rope and hopefully he will hang himself.

Answer 5

What a shame. It's probably best to save and get your own place when you're old enough. I'm so sick of this and America never used to be like this. You can thank the liberals.

Answer 6

Tell her Mom, I respect your wisdom so much i want to do everything just like you, so I'm having my boyfriend come live with me in my room. Without, of course, getting married. Geee thanks Mom for your wonderful insights, got any extra condoms?

Answer 7

You cannot get rid of him , your mom has to do that , let her live her life and you live yours. Your mom is grown and can handle her own love life

Answer 8

umm you need to talk to ur momma. if he is really a low horrible guy she will understand and she will value u over him. but u need proof. just saying u dont like him, won't do anything. u need a real situation that happened that shows hes a jerk

Answer 9

You hear a lot of this lately........ Just ignore him if you have to deal with hearing him. Your mother should realize that this is affecting you . I am sorry you have to see this .

Answer 10

You dont get rid of him.Obviously your mom loves him or she wouldnt be with him. Get a jjob..save your money and get out on your own.