2006-10-09 13:42:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask what is she doing, ask what is she gonna do tomorrow, ask is she wants to hang out, joke around with her,[ but nothing mean ], flirt with her if you like her !
2006-10-09 13:46:28 · answer #1 · answered by iloveyou 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let it be natural don't try to force her into a few topics. But if there's awkward silences then ask about something you both have in common and can talk a lot about, that'll keep you going for a while. I know it sounds lame but school, people you both know, things going on in your community ((if you go to the same school/ live near eachother)) or just talk about an opinion on something like music. However be careful with that one if this person is strong opinioned because some people can get offended and start arguing with you.
Hope this advice helped.
2006-10-09 13:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by KM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out about her interests. What does she like? Ask her opinion about current events, or if you go to the same school comment about something there that is interesting. Girls/women/people
like people who are GENUINELY interested in them.
Encourage her to talk and you do most the listening. Listen hard and find questions about her talk that directly relate to what she just said.
Girls are usually better communicators than guys. Pay attention to what she says and try to find out more about her. Compliment her! Compliment her! Find good things to say about her. Everyone likes to be around someone who sees goodness in others.
2006-10-09 13:49:32 · answer #3 · answered by bahaiking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm that way with my G.F. it is not that i don't wanna talk. i'm only perplexed. I do extra valuable speaking to her than I do on the instant talk on the telephone. you ought to talk concerning the whether, what she and you probably did on the instant or if a wierd or humorous experience passed off you ought to talk approximately that.
2016-10-19 02:50:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk nonstop about you, let her know who's in charge in this relationship. if she trys and get a word in there you tell her to speak when spoken to
j/k
listen to her man girls love to talk about all kinds of stuff, get her to unload some really personal stuff that way if she dumps you later you have some good dirt.
2006-10-09 13:49:08 · answer #5 · answered by chef_q_c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about things she likes to talk about, if you know what they are of course.
Don't come on too strong.
Be interested in what she has to say.
Be calm and act natural.
Try to be humorous.
2006-10-09 13:47:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you need to know why you are calling her? If you don't know that, nothing that I say this point can be of any help.
2006-10-09 13:46:38 · answer #7 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like her tell her how pretty she is and that shes really sweet and that you would like to see her more.. or if your too chicken.. talk about HER no girl wants a dude to be stuck on themselves but stuck on her... ask her about her day and what she did today and ask her about her fav movies and music.. if she asks a question about you answer it then ask a question about her..
2006-10-09 13:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by Bur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I need to know how old you 2 are first.
2006-10-09 13:45:25 · answer #9 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about school, movies, ask her what shows she likes. most importantly is to keep the covversation moving no aquward silences!
2006-10-09 13:46:18 · answer #10 · answered by arielaungst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋