2006-10-09 13:41:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I already have 2 children so no, I would not
2006-10-09 13:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think this is a really tough question to answer without a little more information. I could never have an abortion, however I understand where some women come from and why they would consider it. It depends on the situation. I mean if you wanted the baby then obviously you're going to keep it. And even if you don't want the baby you have to realize that you did have sex with somebody and there may be consequences.
It also depends on the financial situation. If you can't take care of yourself and the baby on the money you're making, then it's really not fair to to the baby. Nobody deserves to come into a world where it's not going to be taken care of. Yes it may be loved, but we all know you need more than love. Especially a baby.
Then you have to talk to the baby's father. If he doesn't want anything to do with you, then that basically tells you that he's not going to help you and that you really are all by yourself on this one. It's an unfortunate situation, but it happens.
Weigh your options and ultimately it's your decision and how you feel about it. Just make sure you have the ability to raise a child no matter what the circumstances, and that the child will be loved. It's only fair. Remember, it's not just you you're going to have to worry about, it's your unborn child too.
Good luck.
2006-10-09 13:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by Brensgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I wouldn't be with a guy for only one night.
Second, if I were the type to do so, I wouldn't do it without the guy wearing a condom. and
Finally, if I got pregnant, of course I would keep the baby. It's a BABY, not "tissue" or any of the "non human" terms the abortionists use to try to make it seem like having an abortion is not a horrible thing to do to another human being.
2006-10-09 13:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by kids and cats 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Questions to ask yourself
1. can you afford to keep the baby?
2.will someone in your family take it , is adoption an option?
3. Do you believe abortion is right in this situation?
4. Are you ready to be a mother?
5. Does the father want a child?
Me personally if i could afford the child and give it the home it deserved i would keep it, if not most likely adoption, and I would consider abortion, but only as a last resort.
2006-10-09 13:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would keep the baby. If I absolutely could not cope with motherhood I would give up the baby at the hospital or fire station where you can drop a baby off anonymously with no questions asked.
2006-10-09 14:12:52 · answer #5 · answered by Lyf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want the baby? Your decision to make. Don't expect any help from the father. I got pregnant and was with the guy twice. My son is the light of my life. I am much older though. Please consider all you options and make a well thought out decision. If you do terminate the pregnancy, do it soon.
2006-10-09 13:46:12 · answer #6 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was thinking of this question this morning because i was afraid this might happen to me.
I don't think i would, because the guy (in my case) isn't willing to get into marriage. I know it's against my own principles, but i will not keep the baby. I don't have the means to keep it.
2006-10-09 13:45:55 · answer #7 · answered by gummy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
depends on the guy, if he was ready and wanted to keep it. If he didn't, probably not. I don't believe that a soul enters the body until the sixth month, so I do believe in abortion but I do want to have a baby soon personally!:)
2006-10-09 13:45:42 · answer #8 · answered by girl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am totally pro-choice. I say if you are responsible to take care of the child and not f*@k up the child, then yes. I would never have an abortion, but I would hate to see a child have life as living hell because mom wanted to be a s&%t.
2006-10-09 13:45:36 · answer #9 · answered by starbrite 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
id keep the baby, but i wouldnt marry the guy. id only marry someone who where theres love between us- i wouldnt want him to marry me because he thinks hes doing this "noble" thing. i would tell him im having his child though- if he left a #!
2006-10-09 13:51:28 · answer #10 · answered by Candymoonangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You choose to have the baby the moment you chose to have sex without birth control.
2006-10-09 13:47:06 · answer #11 · answered by tofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋