my older sister is lesbian and resently i feel she has been trying to get "closer" to me and i like it. What should i do?
2006-10-09 13:41:34 · 9 answers · asked by snake 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
I don't know what you mean by closer but if you think it's in a sexual way and you like it then you need to seek help. And if she is trying to get closer to you in a sexual way she needs to get help.
2006-10-11 08:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by Scully 6 · 10⤊ 2⤋
sisters can be your best friend. Maybe she just wants you to accept her lifestyle and include you in it (not sexually) Are you saying that your attracted to her, or the concept of another woman? If your attracted to her, then that is just wrong. As far as you liking another woman, i think that if that is how you feel explore it. I went through a phase like that, i felt like i had to figure out what i wanted out of life. I have many friends that are same sex couples and have been happy for a very long time. I fell in love with a man though and we will be married very soon. I guess i'm just trying to let you know that it's ok to have those feelings for another woman.... just not your sister :)
2006-10-10 03:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by mac15 2 · 11⤊ 2⤋
Is she your blood sister? I don't think she's trying to get "closer" to you like that. Have a good sister relationship with her.
2006-10-09 20:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by Renee 2 · 14⤊ 0⤋
Just because she's a lesbian doesn't mean she's hitting on you. She may just want to be your friend.
2006-10-11 13:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by greensky212 1 · 10⤊ 0⤋
I think you should embrace her efforts. Its hard enough dealing with the way people outside our family looks at us but when our family turns their backs on us(gay people) it really hurts....i think that she is looking to get closer to you so that she can feel that love....me and my younger sister have recently became best friends...and we love it...she doesnt really like my lifestyle...but she loves me....
love your sister....enjoy her.....
2006-10-12 11:58:13 · answer #5 · answered by Mysterious Lez 2 · 5⤊ 3⤋
if she is trying to get "closer" to you that would be incest and is illegal. Maybe she is just trying to be your sister and friend and you are taking it as more. I'd just ask her and see what she says.
2006-10-09 20:45:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anna Z 4 · 8⤊ 3⤋
have a wonderful sibling relationship with her. She's the best sister your going to have.
2006-10-09 20:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 4⤋
find another woman.
2006-10-09 20:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by RN806 3 · 9⤊ 5⤋
Get closer to her and see what happens
2006-10-09 20:45:22 · answer #9 · answered by Pauline 5 · 8⤊ 31⤋