There is this man that I really like and for the last 3 months we have been spending a great deal of time together. For example he will usually spends the night at my place during the weekdays and I spend the whole weekend with him on the weekends. But basically to make this short he and I both just got out of another relationship him in June and me and September however though we have been knowing each other since March but we have been actin like are together since August.What i wonder does he really like me as much as he say he does or is it something else. I have met alot of people in his family but some of the things he do i question like when he ask me for money it does not be very much but it does add up. When i may ask him to do something for me it always takes a while and i usually have to remind him. Or when he says he is going to do something it takes him a while to do ir or i dont remind him so he does not do it. what should i do about this
2006-10-09 12:56:50 · 6 answers · asked by babygurlnac 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
See the reason why I am not sure what to do because he sounds so sincere we are talkin and he does spend alot of time with me i mean i have met like every one in his immediate family and his extended family he just got out of a relationship with this girl who used him and she had three kids which none were his they were together for like two years so I am tryin to show him that I am there for him and I am not that type of person. See he works two jobs and he has alot of bills to pay and i dont mind helping him but im finding it frustrated the way he does me at times should i at least talk to him about ir or what
2006-10-09 13:48:52 · update #1
i have a friend that sounds alot like u...DONT give this man any more money!!!! see what happens when u cut off the cash flow! i give it two weeks....the next time he asks,u tell him no, im sorry, but i dont think me giving u money is appropriate right now. be very nice about it... just sit back and see what happens . it will take a little time, so hang in there! if he stays around after a couple of weeks,then u know hes there for u.
2006-10-09 13:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by pretty_amazing_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-10-10 21:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey trust your instincts if you are wondering about the money deal, and if he isnt tuned into your feelings and your needs, dump him now!!! just count the money youve loaned him as a very cheap lesson in life and move on. there are lots of guys out there and there is one out there for you!! good luck sweetie
2006-10-09 20:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by namanan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt like you as much as you like him he just being with for his own good
2006-10-09 20:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he sound honest
2006-10-09 19:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by Enthusiast 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok
2006-10-09 20:01:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋