Does he like me as he says he does.?

Question

There is this man that I really like and for the last 3 months we have been spending a great deal of time together. For example he will usually spends the night at my place during the weekdays and I spend the whole weekend with him on the weekends. But basically to make this short he and I both just got out of another relationship him in June and me and October however though we have been knowing each other since March but we have been actin like are together since August.What i wonder does he really like me as much as he say he does or is it something else. I have met alot of people in his family but some of the things he do i question like when he ask me for money it does not be very much but it does add up. When i may ask him to do something for me it always takes a while and i usually have to remind him. Or when he says he is going to do something it takes him a while to do ir or i dont remind him so he does not do it. what should i do about this

Answer 1

Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!

Answer 2

By the sounds of it, find a real man.

This guy is going to treat you badly if you get together with him. Trust me, Im a guy. We do NOT do that kind of things to girls we really like being with.

If you had to ask a bunch of people whom you dont know, thier opinion on the matter than there is something wrong. You should take some time by yourself and think whether this guy is worth it.

A GUY SHOULD NEVER ASK FOR MONEY FROM A GIRL! EVER!

Answer 3

It's hard to say. Frankly, I'm a little concerned that he seems cool with asking you for money. Is he paying you back? Why must you remind him to do little things for you? I would say you should back off until he can handle his business a little better. You want a man who can stand on his own, not a moocher.

Answer 4

Sounds pretty shallow to me.

Answer 5

Sounds like you're just f**k buddies.No more ,no less...sorry