We have been broken up for 2 months now, we were together for 2 1/2 years. He called my phone and left a voice message saying "You were on my mind, I know you probably dont want to talk to me, but I was calling to see how you are doing." What does that mean? He cheated on me that's why we broke up. I haven't called him in a month.
2006-10-09 12:44:14 · 12 answers · asked by Ebony_23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just because he cheated on you does not mean he has forgotten the 2 1/2 years you spent together. He really is thinking of you. Like you he said, you may not want to talk to him but it is okay to be friends with your ex. Besides, take life one day at a time. You probably have moved on but he will never stop thinking about you.
2006-10-09 12:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by Still_21_nheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He left you a lot time to cool off, so he now hopes that you'll forgive him.He wants you to reconsider, to get him back.
If I may add, since you troubled yourself to post a question here, and await our answers, I think you still care about him. I mean, if you don't, you would probably erase his message, and forgot about it instantly. But you didn't...
You don't want us to tell you what his message means... You already know, and you just need to be sure...
Look, If you want him, get him! There will be a lot of opportunities that you'll miss, or you already have, and you will regret sooner or later. Don't let the pride lead you to loneliness. It's already too short for us to spend it alone...If you can forgive him this once, do that! Everybody deserves a second chance....
PS Everybody deserves a second chance, but no one deserves the third.... Follow your heart...
2006-10-09 19:59:04 · answer #2 · answered by Looda_Plavusha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm guessing that means that he's missing you & probably feeling guilty. also he wouldnt call you for no reason, he obviously wants to talk to you and he left you with a couple of questions on that voice message so i guess that means he's kinda expecting you to call or text message him. it's upto you if you want to talk to him again but bear in mind that he did cheat on you and you don't want to go back to that again.
2006-10-09 19:50:42 · answer #3 · answered by supasaucy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means. I hope you have been without sex for the last 2 months and maybe this will cloud your judgment enough for you to let me come over for make up sex. after which I will cheat on you again.
2006-10-09 19:51:16 · answer #4 · answered by naughtybabyjesus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably means that he feels lonely without you and he wants to get back together with you.
But if he cheated on you before, I would watch him closely for any suspicions.
Good Luck
2006-10-09 19:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he want you to give him another cahnce, and he realize that he lost something great. But if you don't want to take him back rite away, just mess aroung wit him/mess wit his head, or you can take him back bc it seems like he has feelings for you.
2006-10-09 19:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by xxMiizzCxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means the new relationship is not working out. he knows he screwed up and wants to come back. Don't be stupid girlfriend.
2006-10-09 19:49:41 · answer #7 · answered by virt2uswoman2 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cheers!
2006-10-09 19:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably realizes how stupid he was for cheating on you. He probably misses you or something...
2006-10-09 19:49:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He struck out with whoever he was cheating with and he wants to get laid. That's exactly what that was about!
2006-10-09 19:47:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋