My step mom is very mean in like she requires everything perfect and she is really overduing it help oh and she seem to try to always keep me working and never to relax
2006-10-09 12:42:33 · 11 answers · asked by fat moe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
tell your dad, he might understand and then again he might kick you out, never mind, don't do that. Just keep your mind off her and when you go to your mom's house, enjoy that time and talk to your mom a lot. Then, you don't have to talk to your step mom. I know that's lame but you can try, it's not a great suggestion though...sorry.
2006-10-09 12:45:41 · answer #1 · answered by chaos causer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you tried sitting down with her and talking about it? (Use "I feel" messages rather than "you" messages. If you go in there saying "YOU are mean. YOU never let me have any fun." and stuff like that, she's not going to be receptive to you and the conversation will end badly. But if you phrase it like, "I feel I'm not getting enough time to myself. I feel I am not being treated fairly." then she won't feel cornered and have to defend herself.)
Also keep in mind that step-moms are people, too. They get stressed out and feel bad just like everyone else. And, depite all the bad press they get, they can be reasonable. Good luck in dealing with yours.
2006-10-09 19:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by Avie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stepmom is jealous of you, it's that simple. She's jealous of the relationship you have with your father. She knows that she will always be second best in your Dad's affections. Be careful, she will try to drive a wedge between you and him.
Have you ever heard the expression, "Keep your friends close and your enemies closer"? Do that. Be nice to her, don't give her anything to complain about. Watch her. Good luck.
2006-10-09 19:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by canucklehead1951 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Geez....you could be my son writing this (he is adopted and refers to me as his step-mom). Really, you are fighting a losing battle. Just try to get these chores done as quickly and painlessly as possible. I would sit down and talk to your dad about what is going on. Maybe he is not aware of it.
2006-10-09 19:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
oh my goodness- you're just like cinderella!
try talking to her - tell her that you're stressed out without getting angry, or overreacting. keep your emotions in check and just be civil to her.
2006-10-09 20:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by Becca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel ,comfront the situation are it is going to keep happening!!!!!!!! Take it from some one who has been there.
2006-10-09 20:11:48 · answer #6 · answered by cody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to teach you discipline.
This skill is invaluable to have if you want a successful life so how about showing her some gratitude?
2006-10-09 19:47:53 · answer #7 · answered by Freddy F 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
do da same 2 her she cant tell u wat 2 do she isn't ur real mom anywayz go tell ur dad wat she does 2 u he better lisen 2 u!!!!!!!!!!! how old r u if ur older than 16 or 17 scream @ her if she hitz u hit her back act like a brat!!!!!!!! if ur younger tell ur dad n ur real mom n some1 who will put her on her place
2006-10-09 19:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did'nt say how old you are and how long has she been your stepmother. That would help.
2006-10-09 20:06:53 · answer #9 · answered by possmdillolady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to here
2006-10-09 19:48:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋