There is a guy at my school which I think likes me. I'm not 100% sure, but I'm 90% sure. Whenever he sees me, he gives a good look. Also, he threw a kid's handball across the school yard once, but he let me borrow his even though I don't know him. I've started liking him too, but the thing is that whenever I want to talk to him, it's hard for me to say what I want to say. I get really nervous. I've decided that I HAVE to talk to him on Tuesday. Any suggestions or ideas on what to tell him? Please help me. Another girl likes him too. That's why I want to get to him first. Please help. Thanks!
2006-10-09 12:36:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, Hey, keep you're pants on. You still have a few hours until tuesday. Keep it plain and simple. Tell him you like him and leave it alone. Don't concern yourself about the OTHER GIRL. If you do, it will become a compitetion. NOBODYS WORTH COMPETING OVER.
The important thing is letting him know where YOU stand & how YOU feel. Then if he's mature enough to accept & recieve you're feelings you may find out he's been feeling the same way or you may find out he's pregnant, or you may find out he's a alien or he has a animal fetish....lol.... Who knows. Just tell him, express yourself in a respectable yet serious manner and give him & yourself a chance to get to know each other.
If it should turn out that he likes the other girl, don't beat yourself up about it. Remember, its about letting him know where you stand & how you feel. Don't be afraid.....
2006-10-09 12:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by Darius J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say hi first. Do you know his name? If not, tell him that you have seen him around and ask him his name. If you know his name, call him by name when you say hi. Ask him something about a class, such as asking him if he is taking Miss ________'s History class. This may sound lame, but it will get you talking. You can then talk about something more interesting. Let him take it from there. If he is interested, he will keep the conversation going or talk to you again the next day.
I know it is difficult (hard to believe, but I was young once myself) but go ahead and make that first step. If it doesn't go anywhere, then you haven't lost anything. If it does, then all is good. Believe it or not it doesn't get much easier when you are older, so start practicing now.
Good luck honey.
2006-10-09 19:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey.
umm.
just go up to him and talk to him.
and
if you cant tell him how you feel like that because you get nervous.
just ask him if he has an email or something.
and
if he does you could email him and do it that way.
and
if that doesnt work.
you could always write him a note.
.....
but.
you need to hurry.
he might fall for the other girl first.
just be yourself.
and
then he should like you.
and
then after you talk to him
and
tell him how you feel.
ask him if he wants to do something sometime.
DO NOT be scared.
itll work fine.
the worst thing he can say is no.
but its not the end of the world.
theres many fishes in the sea.
:}
2006-10-09 19:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by whitney t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's hard for you to get your words out you could always write him! That's what I had to do all through school because I was too nervous to ask a guy face to face. Do it your way! You should tell him that you have a crush on him and see if he would like to try and make a relationship with you. Try it out! What could it hurt! Good luck
2006-10-09 19:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by cutie447_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about what you say be more worried about not being a geek. if you use your body language right he'll get the picture. some thing like grab his hand and rub it with a good excuse or put your hand against his face. i always get those two. and I'm pretty slow at this. make sure when you are alone you stand about 1 ft away to put yourself within his reach, he might just make the move on you first and then your next problem will be trying to get him off of you with out being offensive.
2006-10-09 19:43:20 · answer #5 · answered by talk2much 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first start talking about school, other ppl, rumors, your life, or his life, and after a while yall will build a friendship, and soon yall can exchange (sorry can't spell) each other #, then maybe you or him will pop the question, and b4 u kno it yall will be gf, and bf. But first just start up a nice conversation, or just straight up ask him for his #. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-10-09 19:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by xxMiizzCxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like him, try not to come on too strong, because that will just push him away. you can talk to him as a friend and if he really likes you the way you hope he will let you know in his way. don't push it. if he wants you he will give you the signs you and he wants. good luck
2006-10-09 19:41:15 · answer #7 · answered by Boo G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really likes u he has to talk to u
u can't just go and talk to him
u can send a friend of yours and let her talk to him and discover if he likes you
I like a girl to and I know that she feels just like u so tomorow I'm going to talk to her
any way hope u the best and take care
2006-10-09 19:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by MR.LONELY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wen u see him bump into him and say o im so sry i didnt mean to bump into u and just start a conversation and ask him his name and maybe get his number and ask him some stuff about himself good luck girl i hope u get him
2006-10-09 19:42:28 · answer #9 · answered by jenna s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite him round for a coek or what ever kids drink now day alway break the ice
2006-10-09 19:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by lady_luck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋