Okay, so I might have totally blew it already. I met him a couple weeks before a friends wedding and the night of the wedding we hit it off alright! We both had entirely too much to drink and I ended up going home with him. It was awesome, let me tell ya! We even had a repeat in the morning before I had him take me home. He did not ask for my number or anything when he dropped me off, and I don't know if I would have been comfortable giving it out anyway. I have not heard from him since. Now I WANT him! How am I supposed to get him now after he may have got what he wanted...how should I make him want me? Help because I am going to see him again this weekend...or should I just forget him.
2006-10-09 12:35:02 · 18 answers · asked by Sara B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really like this guy and want him to like you back you have to show him that you have respect for yourself. Remember, why make a committment if you can get everything without the committment.
We all make mistakes, but from them we should learn, not to allow the mistakes to become a habit. Sex often times brings about emotions, so definitely be sure to have a handle on your emotions the next time he sees you. Allow him to make the first move, don't be the aggresor. Who knows he might like you as well.
Be real, be a lady, don't make yourslef seem desperate, or easy. He may have gotten a taste, but whatever you do, don't become his target. If for whatever reason he does not give you the time of day, it's okay, then you'll know he wasn't worth having any way. Why waste time on a dead horse, or one that may later be a flop.
2006-10-09 12:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by seriouslady4sure 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. If he does not pass by your house or call you the next day he's just not that into you. He was probably after the physical sex and not after a relationship, though you gave whatever edge you have on him. There are a lot of guys who are like that, problem is they think that you understand and that your into those things to... remember one of the rules in one night stands is tht there are no attachments involved. Best thing for you to do is to just forget about it and not run after him, get on with your life and charge this mistake to experience. Remember girls are not supposed to run after guys, guys are supposed to run after girls. If you are looking for a relationship with a man, don't give him what he wants till you are in a deep relationship with the person... Don't rush love, dont rush relationships....
2006-10-09 12:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should explain to him that you felt something when you guys were together and you would like to try and make a relationship with him. The only way to find out is to have a conversation about it with him and see what he says! If he says he doesn't think he's ready for a relationship or he just kind of blows you off then you should just try and move on! Good luck
2006-10-09 12:39:01 · answer #3 · answered by cutie447_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing to do is find out how to contact him and see if he is interested. If he is DON'T HAVE SEX WITH HIM THIS WEEKEND. Make him get to know you for you. If he is not interested, at least you know that he does wanted a little action and that was it.
2006-10-09 12:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a relationship you should probably tell him within the first five minutes of seeing him, but if you are looking for a friend with benefits you found him.
2006-10-09 12:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by superman01706 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u should call him find his number,you don't know if he regret not taking your number because if it was good for u it was fabulous for him,he's probably thinking about you right this very minute and next time give it a couple days even if you had to much to drink keep the panties on!!! :)
2006-10-09 12:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should find out a way to contact him and tell him that you'd like to see him again. suggest a place, time, etc. either he will say yes or no.. go from there. if yes, dont go home with him..
2006-10-09 12:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet96 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rule of thumb: sex first go + 2 week wait for contact = nothing. If he would have wanted either you or sex, he knew he could have them. He didn't ask for seconds.
2006-10-09 12:38:56 · answer #8 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A one night stand means just that, it's a one night stand of great sex and then nothing. Thus one night stand.
2006-10-09 12:46:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you meet him be friendly,but don't be easy to get, if you are in a crowd circulate.tell him it was nice to see him again, and leave before he does, if he's interested he should call
2006-10-09 12:47:39 · answer #10 · answered by audreylea1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋