prefer a woman's perspective on this
2006-10-09 12:32:39 · 19 answers · asked by make_me_sweat_692002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for example this last week we made plans for me to go to her house. Then friday she said she had other plans and that her cousin was coming over and that we should go to dinner another time. i called her saturday at noon and i woke her up and she said she would call back. i called her a few times on saturday and sunday and got no calls back until monday morning. i asked her to dinner tonight and she said she would think about it. she said she didnt call me because she was depressed and tired and slept all weekend. she accuses me alot of cheating on her and i havent......but i am beginning to wonder if she is on me.
2006-10-09 12:44:16 · update #1
There are a lot of things that can play into this. Usually if the relationship has been sexual you will notice her not wanting it as much and maybe when you do have sex she will all of a sudden want to try new things.....also if she starts to shave down there....that is big.
If the relationship is not sexual yet.....she will probably not call as much. Not answer your calls, flirt with other guys, also a big thing is if she no longer wants to talk....girls like to talk and if she isnt talking to you she is talking to someone else!
2006-10-09 12:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by jessica_121212 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for any signs that appear different in the relationship. For instance if she always wants to be with you. But suddenly wants to go out with friends more. Or if she didn't like you to go out with friends but now encourages you to. You just have a feeling that somethings not the same between the two of you. She maybe more distant towards you. May cause arguments. This could be beginning of the end because she wants to push you away so maybe you'll break off with her. The best thing to do is to be upfront with her about what you're feeling. Either that or you could try to find out. But I'd rather just talk to them about it. Good Luck!!! I hope this isn't the case. But if it is you're better knowing and better off without her!!!!!
2006-10-09 12:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait for the telltale signs. If you think she is, then just ask her outright. But you need to think about how you would react if your girlfriend asked you that same question. If you have a strong relationship then you can communicate and work things out.
Most Men think all Women are alike. (Women think the same of Men) They get burned in the past and expect their current relationship to wind up the same. People need to break out of their shells and realize that everyone is different and you need to respect and trust your partner.
2006-10-09 12:52:24 · answer #3 · answered by daisy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay heres your woman perspective... tell tale signs. Well for starters she doens't always answer your phone call, she is no longer sexual with you, shes always with her bestfriends(the ones that will cover for her) and she definitly won't care as much when your upset with her.... there is just a few. Girls are evil, and they are slick, they get away with way more then men do. Maybe if you could be more specifc as far as whats making you think this?
2006-10-09 12:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by seekonkgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow her. Not like stock her, but if you really want to know follow her and see if she is cheating. Cause it would suck if it was with a friend or if your friend say he saw her with someone else. Cause u would look stupid if you took her out, feed her, movies, whatever and another guy finishes her off at the end of the night.
2006-10-09 12:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the one way to find out if someone is cheating on you is if they accuse you of the cheating first. 9 x out of 10 they are the ones cheating. watch how she reacts around you. body language speaks louder than words. if you tell her you love her and she does not respond or she does but not the same way she use to then something is up. good luck
2006-10-09 12:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by Boo G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to tell her what you heard and see what she says. The most troubling part to me is that she "told everyone", even if she did blame him. So are they still "best friends"? Play this one by ear. Being wasted does not excuse this behavior, but it's a mistake she can learn from and put behind her.
2016-03-28 03:07:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is not hanging around with you as much and if she gets mad because of little things! If she is avoiding you or stuff like that. Just try talking to her. See if she is doing any of these things. Good Luck!
2006-10-09 12:38:07 · answer #8 · answered by Ali R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. she is ignorin u more than usual
2. she goes out alot more
3. she is dressin nicer
4. doesnt call as much or is busy alot more
5. gets mad at u for lil things or stupid things
6. calls u stupid, or says ur crazy (when u point out stuff)
7. gets secret calls
8. makes other plans with out tellin u
9. talks privatly to her girlfriends when ur around
2006-10-09 12:35:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoids phone calls, doesn't make any plans with you or says she is busy all the time...ask her hopefully she will be honest with you and then move on
2006-10-09 12:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋