been with him for almost 2 years, never once has he said "I love you" I know he cares...and I've never said it either, so it's safe to assume we aren't in love, but lots is wrapped up in this relationship. I need to move on, not sure how to break ties gently, he and my son are great friends.
2006-10-09 12:29:59 · 11 answers · asked by scheiem 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry for the confusion, we don't live together
2006-10-09 12:39:17 · update #1
just break it, no big deal
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2006-10-09 12:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be honest. It may not be gentle but as long as you don't have any financial ties to him it should be OK. It will be sad for both of you but at the end of it all you will both have a chance to be happy. I am sure that's what you want for him as well as yourself.
Your son will benefit from you being in a healthy and happy relationship and that is the most important thing of all.
Good luck
2006-10-09 12:33:36 · answer #2 · answered by keith s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you really feel about him? Do you love him? I mean yes your son and him are great friends, but if you are not happy, eventually your son is going to sence it and feel that resentment towards him. so if you and him are not going any further with the relationship then you can break it off and still stay friends. it doesn't hurt to just stay friends. good luck
2006-10-09 12:33:29 · answer #3 · answered by Boo G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would just be like you know I don't see this going anywhere and i feel like it would be best if we break the ties but don't get me wrong i still want you in my life because you do still mean a lot to me.
good luck!!!
2006-10-09 12:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by erica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may both be struggling with the same problem. Just talk to him and tell him how you feel. , two years is too long to be in a relationship that is not going any-where, your first obligation is to take care of yourself. good luck
2006-10-09 12:34:08 · answer #5 · answered by sophie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will never be easy to break up with him. You have to be honest and tell him face to face that it's over. Out of respect to your son, your ex should tell him that the break up has nothing to do with him and wish him well too. Good luck.
2006-10-09 12:32:13 · answer #6 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. dont say to him "its not u, its me" bc that is a lie
2. just say " i want different things right now, so i got to leave"
lot less painful
3. just move ur stuff out when he isnt home..its easier to leave that way.
4. dont say " i hope we can still be friends" bc it usually dont work out that way there is a hater period..so just leave it at .." i wish u well. and i hope u would wish the same for me"
2006-10-09 12:33:25 · answer #7 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I KNOW U DONT WANT 2 MOVE JUST TELL HIM U LOVE HIM
2006-10-09 12:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him out to dinner for a long, quiet talk.
2006-10-09 12:31:08 · answer #9 · answered by Hey What You Think? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ttheres no nice way
2006-10-09 15:07:08 · answer #10 · answered by tommy_8473 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋