Me and my guy friend went to the homecoming dance together, and he was getting way to close and wouldnt leave me alone, and he without a doubt likes me (no suspcion, he told me so). I don't feel the same about him and I am still getting over my old boyfriend, how do I tell my friend that I dont like him that way without hurting his feelings? (he is very emotional, and can be easily hurt)
Note: I have tried telling him I'm not over my last boyfriend (partly true) but he still tries to get too close and flirt with me.
2006-10-09 12:29:25 · 10 answers · asked by ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find out if he has an emotional or physical attraction to you. there is a difference and both have to be delt with completely differntly.
2006-10-09 12:32:16 · answer #1 · answered by notsoperfectgentleman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no way accept honesty...if you kepp beating around the bush, he will like you more and more, and when he eventually finds out, by pushing more and more, you you continually rejecting, he'll eventually ask, and you'll have to be honest, and he'll be hurt even more
if you really care about his feelings, you'll tell him sooner then later...
beleive me, I'm a guy, and he's not going to just stop liking you...only way he'll back off and get over and past you is if you tell him the truth
sry, prob not the answer you're looking for, but every other option is a lie
2006-10-09 19:32:58 · answer #2 · answered by redims81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not to sure how old you are, but do not let him keep up this pressure, some guys think that if they keep putting pressure on someone they will eventually fold. You may have to completely break away from him if he persists, and tell him that, good luck
2006-10-09 19:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you want to be his friend and nothing more. Whatever you say it's going to hurt his feelings (but hey, that's how life works). If you don't say anything or lie, you're just going to have to put up with him chasing after you.
2006-10-09 19:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by Shooter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you do not want to ruin the friendship. This happened to me, and when I decided to break up with him, he was really sad. He said I led him on which was partially true. Trust me just be friends. Friends are to important!
2006-10-09 19:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by Ali R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your not comfortable with this yet and you nedd more time. Also dont flirt back with him (not sayng u do) thats the worst hing u can do. Tell him your not intersted in hooking up your more intersted in staying friends.
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2014-08-20 03:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you don't like him that way ..and he obviously dose
why go out to gather ..just keep on ignoring him ..he will get the massage..
2006-10-09 19:37:23 · answer #8 · answered by JJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should let him know how u really feel.
2006-10-09 19:36:01 · answer #9 · answered by tiqueelaboyd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say"I DON'T LIKE YOU!" DON'T BE TOO CLOSE AND LEAVE ME ALONE! BYE-BYE.
2006-10-09 19:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋