How do you get rid of a man who you are spiritually connected to? He will not just stay away when you make efforts such as :not answer the phone, the door etc. When he is not around, you feel his presence-he later tells you what you did? Aside from all this, he lives with someone who he claims is leaving. I don't want to call the police to keep him away, because its not to that extent. Previous to this, we were in a relationship for 8 years. When we seperated, we both got in other relationships, mine has ended his did not. At this point, its time for the bs with him to end. Help!
2006-10-09 12:21:19 · 15 answers · asked by ummmm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Restraining order- If he is sneaking around watching you that is more than 'far enough'
Send the message, and send it loud and clear.
2006-10-09 12:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by Daughtry-luver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all it's important that you be true to yourself, and make a decision as to what do you really one. Until that is done it will probably be hard to ever get rid of the man.
If it's over you have to make it very clear that you are done. If he insists on making himself a nuisance, then you will have to make a decision to take other steps. Be careful because this could get out of control, feelings appear to be involved. Basically make a decision and put your foot down, if it's truly over.
2006-10-09 19:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by seriouslady4sure 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that is the best way don't try to send him hints like not answering the phone and stuff of that nature because it won't work
2006-10-09 19:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him on Jerry Springer and tell him he has to go.
Either that or round up a posse at the trailer park to run him out of town.
2006-10-09 19:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my situation is similar in a way to yours. finally, i scared the crap out of him. i wrote him a huge email telling him that i was going to tell his new wife everything (we snuck around together after our breakup while he was with his new girl.) unless he left me the hell alone.
so far its been a few weeks and its worked....
i never stood up to him in the past, so i think its going to keep him away from me.
2006-10-09 19:33:23 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet96 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't know ow to spiritually unconnect form someone, but you could make him less interested in you, make oyurself appear to be besoming the kind of woman he would not like, or maybe be disguisted by...then he wouldn't want to intrude on you or your thoughts
2006-10-09 19:24:54 · answer #6 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know some guys can be extremely hard headed the more we say NO, the more they want us to the point of becoming starkers. be strong don't give in to his controlling, manipulative behavior.
2006-10-09 19:30:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Him That you have moved on easy honey then go in hiding lol
2006-10-09 19:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by Ness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's with someone else (and it doesn't matter if he says he's leaving her), just tell him it's over and stick to your guns. You don't need that kind of heartache.
2006-10-09 19:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by vita64 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A .45 and a shovel.
2006-10-09 19:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋