Um during school i have a 35min brake for lunch. Wich is pretty lame. ok so i hang out with my friends and wich one of them are this really cute girl, i want to ask her out but she claims she has a boyfriend. she never talks about him and i never seem him either, i want to ask her out but i dont know what to do. i talk to her more than she probably talks to him. Should i leave this alone or something more productive than what im doing now.
2006-10-09 12:06:16 · 17 answers · asked by I WORK ALONE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should really get to know her before you start dating or else you might find out that she's a total jerk.
If you really like her then just think of a way that wouldn't embarrass yourself badly but still will make her want to go out with you.
But first find out about her. See if you really like her. You might find that you don't so don't do anything until you're sure or else you'll just end up worse then you already am right now
PS if you get the girl, do something or ask her about her "boyfriend"
2006-10-09 12:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by chaos causer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get closer to this girl! Become her best friend! Then she'll start telling you all about her relationship with this guy. If there really is no guy ... you'll also figure that out! If you are honest with her on your feelings and you're very open with her, she's more likely to like you! You've got to find a way to tell her exactly how you feel without scaring her off. You need to try and figure out how she feels about you. You could ask her the next time you guys are talking if she thinks your relationship could ever go beyond friendship. See how she reacts. I hope I helped you. Good luck
2006-10-09 19:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by cutie447_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about writing her a nice friendly, not too pushy note.
Maybe try and write a small poem and just give it to her.
Be cool. Just say that she lights up your day and you felt that you had to somehow repay her, in a small way, for being such a positive influence on your life and day.
Act cool. Friendly, inviting ... maybe a bit mysterious. Don't intimidate her. Give her space. Let her warm up to you.
Poetry works like a charm. << smile >>
All the best. Always remember ... this is not the end of the world though you may feel like that at times.
All the best. Go for it TIGER.
Many thanks.
2006-10-09 19:10:14 · answer #3 · answered by rigelbright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She claims she has a boyfriend...leave it alone.
She might really have a boyfriend, or this could be her very nice way of telling you she's not interested. If you keep hounding her for a date, you'll become "that creepy guy who won't leave me alone".
Keep hanging out with her, making her laugh, etc...if she's interested, she'll make it a point someday to casually mention that she's single. If she doesn't, drop it.
2006-10-09 19:09:24 · answer #4 · answered by Jen H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say if you already talk to this girl friend daily and tend to communicate rather well already it's okay to ask her questions about her boyfriend. If she chooses not to answer boyfriend questions this might be an indication or hint to you that she is not interested in you or others in your circle of friends.
2006-10-09 19:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by Patricia W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask. My philosophy in life is that if I don't ask, I don't get. Maybe she just says she has a boyfriend thinking that if she doesn't have one, it won't be "cool". Ask her in privatethough, she may not want to answer in front of a bunch of other friends.
The worst thing she can do is say no. Go for it, she may just say YES!!
Good luck
2006-10-09 19:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by Lucky girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt, maybe u should drop some hints, if she picks it up she'll flirt back (then ask her out), if she doesnt like it or strays away from it leave it alone. she doesnt like you. if u dont want to do that then wait til she says something about breakin up wit da guy, trust me she'll have plenty to say about it.
2006-10-09 19:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by B3. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
still talk to her as a friend and if she's interested then maybe she'll say she doesn't have a boyfriend and ya'll can hook up. but if she actually does don't try to come in between them.
2006-10-09 19:09:18 · answer #8 · answered by smallz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone, maybe she really does have a BF? You never know though.
2006-10-09 19:21:42 · answer #9 · answered by You're My Wonderwall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her and if she turns you down.....just say this "oh okay...its cool with me" and act like its no big deal. Then again....ask her again when the time is right adn proably have a chance you'll be going out.
2006-10-09 19:07:56 · answer #10 · answered by Jellybean_93 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋