How can I signal to my REALLY good guy friend that I like him?

Question

Nothing nasty please. That's not fair.

I've known him for so long...
I like my good guy friend, how could i get him to ask me out?
Please don't say ask him out. I need more than that. I've known him for so long, and he doesn't flinch or pull away when I put an arm around him or anything because we are such good friends. He is always switching from girl to girl on who he likes and he really clings to me and calls me alot, i've been helping him get the girls he likes, but if they say no, he really doesn't care. I don't know what to do, I REALLY don't want to be turned down. I just really like him.

Also, when he talks to me, he's not afraid to get really close to my face. He's not seeing anybody right now, and he doesn't like anybody, atleast he says that, so this could be my chance, so please answer!

He also is not afraid to be with me alone, we went to the homecoming game together.

I need some more answers, but the only problem is he's alot taller than me. Like, a foot.

Answer 1

Well i think since u know him so much... u'll start seeing what type of girls he likes. Dont all of a suden start droping hits on him. He will get freaked out and u will grow apart. If he isnt nudging than u should ask him out. The most important thing is dont make him feel uncomfortable. Just take it step by step.... u have to crawl before u run:) good luck

Answer 2

I'm sorry but the best thing you CAN do is tell him how you feel.
When you guys are talking, see how he would feel if you guys went out on a date. Pretend you are joking but see what he says.
If it is something that you would like, you should just say, 'How come you never asked me out?'

GOOD LUCK.

Answer 3

Please show him this question, sounds like a wonderful guy, and deserves, some one who really cares, I know it is hard to speak your heart, but in this case reading will do the job, as you have explained how you feel very well and that is the object of this question.

Answer 4

I had the same problem...we've been going out for quite a while... what i did was i just let things work out and then i started giving him hints after hints after hints. then all of a sudden i we was in a conversation with him and i said people keep thinking we're going out and i hate to tell them no.but i don't ask guys out...and he said he feels the same way and then he asked me out.. just throw hints and go with our instincts and everything should work out.

Answer 5

Be very very Careful. I did this and lost him all together. He wasn't interested and he was uncomfortable being around me after he found out.

sad too because he was an incredible person

Answer 6

OK, well.. YOU should be the one to lay the first move on him. ask him out. ask him to go to a movie that he wants to see, or pizza, or to your house. you never know, he might be waiting for you to put a move on him. just be confident, and don't worry. just ask him out, but don't act like you are asking him out. just like, "hey, wanna go to the movies?" but not too casual. lay a move on him. give him a hug, hold his hand, maybe even a kiss on the check real sudden, they like that.. if that doesn't work, or if you need more help, just ask again, or e-mail me at [e-mail] BYE!!

Answer 7

There's not an easy answer... you have to be flirty with him. Use your body language to show him how you feel. If he doesn't take the bait, then likely he's not interested in you in that way.

Answer 8

you're confuse he is just your friend that's the reason he never say nothing about love to you cause he don't feel the same

Answer 9

If he gets that close to your face, get in a quick kiss!

Answer 10

I think a goodblow-job would do it