I love my boyfriend so so much we have been together for 3 years and 6 months his my everything the probem is that I want him to propose I did not tell him duhh!!!! but I know his not prepared yet for the second step what do you guys think I am 21 maybe I am to young and I should think about it better tell me your opinion please do not write stupid things this is serious
2006-10-09 12:04:29 · 12 answers · asked by beautiful 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you are too young, and you certainly have been together long enough. If you happen to live together, then that might mean he isn't the type to get married. Why bother, in that case? If not... then it may be due to economics... ie: he feels unprepared for that financial responsibility.
It's always best to wait until the guys ask. For some reason, most of them are less geared towards marriage, and it always should be their idea.
Discussions on how you both feel about those issues... that's the best thing to start with right now. Find out where you both stand on some of those major important things. Don't sound too eager, but let him know that you are not opposed to marriage, etc.
Good luck!
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2006-10-09 12:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its best to wait until you are both ready, 21 is still very young. he obviously loves you and wants to be with you but not quite ready for the big 'm'. take it slow and enjoy your time now, don't get caught up in the thing of all your others friends getting engaged and or you wanting to get engaged. if you focus on that you will be distracted from the time you have here and now and it might make him nervous about asking you. who knows maybe he already has plans to surprise you, you wouldn't want to ruin that now would you? you'd be taking his joy aways by pushing it. relax and just enjoy each other, the rest will follow.
2006-10-09 12:08:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
21 is way too young to get married. You should at least get to know him for a couple more years and consider moving in together before you decide to do something so permanent.
2006-10-09 12:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by elektriktourist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much do U know about him, deep? !yr. from now? KIDS? JOB? Career, will he help around the house? Whoah! U said 3 yrs. ,6 mo.s ? Say Good-bye. Any romance, kiss everyday, you asked him to remember something, did he? Watch his eyes & his body, the way he reacts to anything U say. What sign are U & him? Me & Ron are both Aries! Now that is fun!!!
2006-10-09 13:38:16 · answer #4 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young still...wait a couple of years then maybe he will be ready to ask you. but dont wait forever...i would say after 25 if he still hasnt asked, move on...but the only way to get inside of his brain is to talk about marriage with him. tell him how you feel about it and see what he says.
if he says that he doesnt ever want to get married or something negative about marriage then dont waste anymore time
2006-10-09 12:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by lovelye513 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop screaming - we heard you!
If you love him so much - together over 3 years - he loves you -
just tell him what's on your mind.
Only three answers to choose from: YES, MAYBE and NO.
So, than it is up to you to decide what the future will be.
YES - you will live happily ever after.
MAYBE - you have to wait a while.
NO - you dump him and make a new life for yourself Don't wait
for him to change his mind.
2006-10-09 12:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your Not To Young...your at the perfect age!!!! All You Can Do Is Wait until he Is Ready
2006-10-09 12:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by mx_chic_4_life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't feel ready, or that is not something he even thinks about.
2006-10-09 12:08:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shack up for a few years, then regroup.
2006-10-09 12:29:05 · answer #9 · answered by djtzclark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you propose instead!
2006-10-09 12:12:32 · answer #10 · answered by retrodragonfly 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋