There is this kinda cute guy in my grade that I REALLY like. My friends think he;s ugly, but whatever. Anyway, I don't think he likes me (i'm VERY self-conicus because I'm a little overweight. A little little) but sometimes I think he's staring at me. I think. HE IS SO CUTE! What do I do? I want to ask him out, but I am WAY too chicken, besides he's too popular. I've had a bad experience with theis guy who broke up with me after one day because his friends said he had to or else they wouldn't be friends with him anymore. What do I do?!
2006-10-09 11:59:39 · 5 answers · asked by Skittles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself, Don't push yourself on anyone.
What's supposed to happen, will happen.
Sometimes that's hard to believe but it's true.
If it doesn't happen, it's not meant to be.
2006-10-09 12:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by eviechatter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends think he's ugly... So he's not all that and a bag of chips, huh?
Maybe you should treat him like a human being and see if he does the same. Find out what he likes to do by observation and occasionally happen to show up at the same time/activity. After a while, he'll either see you as a friend or possibly someone to become interested in. He may surprise you and ask you out.
I would not approach him with the date. Allow him to make the choice. That way he can say to his friends, "I don't care what you guys think, I like her."
2006-10-09 12:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's O.K. t o ask a guy out, if that.s what you want. Your friends should take a step back and mind their own business. Your size is not a issure, it's how you feel about yourself. If someone cares for you the outsiders needs to ;shut up. Be happy and be yourself not what someone else want you to be. Bye
2006-10-09 12:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by gilbert_villegas2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.
This is exactly the same thing that's happening to me right now..EXACTLY.
Except he's in a higher grade than me, and about the breaking up part.
I'd love to help..but I'm trying to figure out what to do myself lol.
But what I've been doing is saying Hi to him when I see him.
He will sometimes too.
What have you got to lose..let him know you like him little by little!!
Good Luck!!!!
2006-10-09 12:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by .: The Girl Next Door:. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know him and see where it goes from there, don't be self-concious about your weight alot of guys like a girl with a little extra padding......
2006-10-09 12:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋