i told my friend she could go out with my ex if she wanted and i wouldnt care an i meant it but she didnt believe me. im serious though. how can i get her to believe me?
2006-10-09 11:56:40 · 14 answers · asked by lothargrl_4_life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, none of us believe you! We've been there and know how it would feel - you would resent her for doing it.
2006-10-09 12:02:39 · answer #1 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave the situation alone. She will if she wants to, and IF you find out she did it behind your back, DONT get mad. It doesn't matter remember? Don't take it as a betrayal, take it as respect for your feelings. If she saw you go through a broken heart, she doesn't want to hurt you. Remember, it isn't really up to you to give her permission. She's your friend. Respect her too.
2006-10-09 19:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by Lees' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This actually happen to my friend. She wouldn't date her other friend's ex. Unless her friend have a boyfriend then she started dating with her friend ex. Why don't you get a b/f? Prove to her that you are moving on and you really don't care.
2006-10-09 19:00:17 · answer #3 · answered by strawberry_kiss_gurlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion, if y'all r REAL friends then she wouldn't g/w ur ex bf anyway, but she might feel weird or guilty cause she doesn't want u 2 b mad.(though u say u wont b mad, i doubt that ur completely over it and there will probably b some jealousy)
2006-10-09 19:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by pinknewyorkapple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is being smart. You really need to rethink this; it may seem fine now, but once she begins going out with him, kissing him in front of you, talking about how wonderful he is, you may change your mind.
2006-10-09 19:01:27 · answer #5 · answered by remmymarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if you let your best friend go out with your ex, then can i go out with you?
2006-10-09 18:59:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new bf and talk bout him all the time oo and bring up a subject of ex bf then tell her she can go w/ him
2006-10-09 18:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by get at me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she doesn't really want to.
Or, maybe, deep down, she values her friendship with you above dating the "ex". Sometimes it's not what we SAY that communicates our feelings...sometimes it's HOW we say it. Maybe she's listening to the HOW and not to your words.
2006-10-09 19:24:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont need to she should believe you! anyways she knows it is not right to do it because you guys are friends!
2006-10-09 19:00:39 · answer #9 · answered by Tess c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why on earth would you tell her that? that is one sure fire way to ruin a friendship even if you say you are over him and give her permission to see him that doesn't make it right..she doen't want to hurt her and i wouldn't push it on her
2006-10-09 18:59:44 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋