This guy I had a crush on for almost a year now. It has finally subsided but it's still sort of there. The other day I didn't have hardly any makeup on and was very tired. My sinuses were bothering me. So my eyes were kind of puffy. I was walking out to my car with a friend of mine and he smiled at us. When he got close up he especially gave me a big smile. But as he smiled it immediately went to a serious stunned look and he looked down my face to my lips. Then he just walked with us and when said bye didn't look at me again. It was sunny out inside the building theres no windows just lighting. I feel this accentuated how tired and having less makeup on. I mean being in the sunlight. I haven't seen him in a couple of days I dread seeing him now. What if he was thinking I looked awful. His expression just keeps going through my mind. Do you think he forgot how I looked that day. Or is he going to look at me strange now? I'm so afraid. I can't stand to see that look.
2006-10-09 11:50:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think he'll remember how you looked that way.
2006-10-09 11:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by sugar n' spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sooner or later the dreaded day comes, the dreaded day of no makeup or even worse..the runny nose, coughing and just plain sickly. We all fear that day, but it will happen. We as women do not wake with makeup on, hair done and smelling like roses. We do get sick and yes, we do go to the bathroom. We will be embarrassed because we are supposed to be perfect. If a man is interested in me on my worst day, then that is the man for me.
2006-10-09 12:05:01 · answer #2 · answered by mkathy 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about it. He saw you without make up, BIG DEAL. Did you return his smile when he smiled big at you? Maybe he thought you were rejecting him?
I say Don't sweat it. If he judges based on your looks with make up off... He obviously is looking for someone with absolutely perfect skin. This person does not exist...
Everyone is entitled to a bad day every once in a while...
2006-10-09 11:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lisa he was probably concerned about you looking ill, that's all. If he smiles and you look a bit off colour naturally his expression is going to change to mirror yours.
And on the plus side he is going to notice how much better you look the next time he sees you if you are feeling a bit better.
2006-10-09 11:57:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, after a few days, it will be out of his mind- I doubt very much that, assuming that he's been thinking about you, that he's been thinking about how you looked. It won't be on his mind.
On the off-chance that he is still thinking about it, then you have two options:
1) Talk to him about it. Ask him why it bothered him so much, and tell him about the situation; or
2) Forget about him.
2006-10-09 12:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by hamiefever4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to be with a guy who is THAT judgemental of your looks? Its pretty shallow. However, if you are really that concerned, I would say get over it. Guys love self-confident woman. If you act like it was no big, and continue being yourself around him that will impress him the most. If you avoid him and hide he will think you are unconfident and uncool.
2006-10-09 11:54:11 · answer #6 · answered by Jezah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it....he' not thinking about it at all at this point. When he sees you next time looking much better he may even think he needs to have his eyes checked. So don't be embarrassed--no one is perfectly groomed 24/7.
2006-10-09 11:57:25 · answer #7 · answered by 321Taylor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your best bet is to not act wierd around him. For now on make sure you are looking your best. I know it is soooo shallow but guys are visual human beings!
2006-10-09 11:55:19 · answer #8 · answered by esther 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was scared because he thought soemthing was wrong like u have maybe been crying from something and it wasnt your day! He didnt want to make you more upset sooo he didnt say anything!
2006-10-09 11:52:56 · answer #9 · answered by Tess c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you were just self conscious and misinterpreted his reaction. And if that is what he is about then you do not want him anyway. Do not worry
2006-10-09 11:55:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋