This is very tricky....i think it does work, but not for very long. The thing that breaks this deal apart is that someone gets attached or jealous...and its going to eventually happen. Its human nature to grow attached to someone after so long, especially when your having such intimate relations. So its just a matter of time...a week, a month...a year.
Best thing to do is have a fling for a few weeks, then break it off. No one will get hurt because both of you knew what you were getting into and feelings werent invested.....and if you like the person, just try to take it to the next level.
2006-10-09 11:52:49
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answered by cesarsauce 2
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YES!!!!! Feelings should be minimal. You will find yourself having more feelings for him or him for you. It never fails. Seems in the long run you or he would of never agreed to do this unless one of you did have more then friends feelings.
If a booty call is what it is then make that known.
2006-10-09 18:51:16
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answered by WENDY G 6
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Yes mam, because certain things should never happen between "friends with benefits", if there are no limitations then you might as well be with that person, just my opinion!!!
2006-10-09 18:53:39
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answered by Gulfport, MS Resident 1
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The limitation is don't do it. Someone will get hurt. Unless you are both cold hearted people who have no feelings at all. I guess then it is ok.
2006-10-09 19:03:32
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answered by Anonymous
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There is always a limitation with friends.
2006-10-09 18:48:18
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answered by Anonymous
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Eventually the friends part gets mixed in with the lover part.
Things can either work out or become something very tragic.
I would not do it.
2006-10-09 18:48:51
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answered by Anonymous
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Always!! Do not get attached. know it for what it is... a booty call, nothing else. Do Not Get Jealous!!! And most important if you want it to continue, when he (or she) meets the RIGHT one, DO NOT TALK BAD ABOUT THEM.
2006-10-09 18:50:28
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answered by crazygirllvsn8 3
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Only the ones you put in place first.
2006-10-09 18:49:12
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answered by the_saint1963 4
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only the limits you make
2006-10-09 18:48:10
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answered by Kayla 1
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no such thing. don't fool yourself. you can't have sex with someone and not have attachment issues. people that say they can - LIE. time will prove them wrong.
the act of sex is intimacy. you cannot be intimate with someone without feeling emotions. and, if you truly don't feel ANY emotions, i'm afraid we have the next serial rapist/killer on our hands.
2006-10-09 18:47:58
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answered by annie 3
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