why do guys not like when there girlfriend says "i love you"why do they get all freaked out?isnt it a good thing?
2006-10-09 11:45:38 · 12 answers · asked by irma 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It shocks guys to hear that if it comes too soon. If it comes after a long time, then it is because the man is just afraid of commitment. When you tell him you love him, that sends the message that things have just gotten serious. So he can't just get out of the relationship without hurting you.
2006-10-09 11:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by coolbeanfive 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats the big "L' which means a commitment, relationship, and responsibility especially if the guy is really not ready for a word like love-- most guys throw that word out when they want in your pants but if that already happen that word is hard to say-- except after a long and I mean a long time of knowing you
2006-10-09 11:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by Ladder Captain-29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends entirely on the person. Some people need to be told, and others just don't like that kinda thing. It makes them feel powerless, weak. It is a good thing to tell someone that you love them, but occassionally you'll find someone who thinks otherwise.
2006-10-09 11:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a good thing only if the guy feels the same way. If he doesn't, then he feels like you're pressuring him to say that same thing back to you, and he, probably, would rather not lie to you, especially about that.
2006-10-09 11:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love asks for commitment. A lot of guys aren't ready to do that.
2006-10-09 11:50:18 · answer #5 · answered by brenbon1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are with the wrong guys. I liked it so much when my girlfriend told me she loved me, that I married her.
2006-10-09 11:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by Big Blair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they like to be the first to say it because they get afraid of commitment and think if you love them youll be all clingy and stuff
2006-10-09 11:48:28 · answer #7 · answered by *princess* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they don't love you back. Sorry
2006-10-09 11:50:13 · answer #8 · answered by brooklyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONES THAT GET FREAKED OUT ..SORRY BUT THEIR TOO IMMATURE AND NEED TO GROW UP!!!
2006-10-09 11:51:02 · answer #9 · answered by SWM 38 _4_ YOUNG GF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz sometimes it b.s. and we know it .
and when girls says it, we feel FORCED to say it back .
2006-10-09 11:58:24 · answer #10 · answered by Daniel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋