2006-10-09 11:30:13 · 15 answers · asked by switlabs04 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't trust that guy.
2006-10-09 11:32:54 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he doesn't trust women, then why is he hanging out with you? To me, that is a ploy for some men to try and control women by making them feel sorry for them. Why should you take on the burden of overcoming his miss-trust. All you can be is yourself...and none of us are perfect.
He has to accept you for yourself...and leave his past girlfriend woes behind.
2006-10-09 11:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him know that all woman is not alike, and that it appears that he has had some bad experiences with woman. but that you are not like that, tell him he has a trust issue, and that he has to learn how to deal with it, because if he does not , it is going to get in the way of his relationships with woman, he has to learn to trust. And if he can't deal with it on his own, then he needs to go and get help, from a therapist, or coulselor!
2006-10-09 11:37:16 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care? Stay away from him..
If you want him to date you, then I suggest that you give him reason to trust you as a friend. Then allow the relationship to progress naturally.
You can't force him to change his mind, he has to do that on his own.
2006-10-09 11:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck with this one my bestfriend who has been my ex for four years I am sure he has trust issues with women for one his mother abused him which is totally sad he is such a lovelable person and this other girl he went out with after we broke up dumped him in four days after her ex boyfriend got back from some funreal what a ***** and I have to work with both of them anyways try to be thier for him the best u can and best of luck
2006-10-09 11:33:40 · answer #5 · answered by Renee B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this guy doesn't trust a women....then probably that last women that he was with, cheated on him or something.
just talk to him....and ask him why he doesn't trust you...and tell him your not like those other girls.
2006-10-09 11:36:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be patient and he'll come around. my fiance was like this when we got together. he had been married to a woman for almost 6 yrs and she cheated on him badly, i just sympathized and did whatever i could to show him that he could trust me and it was so worth it. don't run in the other direction be there for him
2006-10-09 11:34:38 · answer #7 · answered by gardener24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
W/ acceptance, "I understand you .... What / how can I act to make it easier for you?"
Eventually, you may make it to, "What/how can I act so you trust me?"
If this is related to dating, time and love will overcome it. If this is related to childhood, then therapy will speed recovery.
2006-10-09 11:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well y doesnt he trust u??? anyway try to make him trust u dats the best way
2006-10-09 11:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by mario_pimpin2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can run and not trust him. those kinds will do what they want because they think you are cheating and they wont respect you.
2006-10-09 11:34:45 · answer #10 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him that he can trust you this of course will take time and patients
2006-10-09 11:32:42 · answer #11 · answered by Crystal A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋