He works 2nd shift, I work 1st. He loves being on the computer and being with his guy friends. He also doesn't think about doing something with "just me" but always thinks he should invite a friend or 2 if we go out somewhere.
2006-10-09 11:25:09 · 9 answers · asked by h.marieh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
week end.
2006-10-09 11:26:42 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say this, but it seems to me that he is trying to turn you off, the cowardly way, so he don't look like that bad guy. Boyfriends and girlfriends should be a little more romantic. Also, if he's always on the computer, I would be checking the sites he's been going on ( if you live together). Inviting others out on a date? I'd give him a chance, ask to set a date for you guys to go out to dinner alone. See if it's a go.. If not, I'd be moving on pretty quick. Working two different shifts is tough, trust me. So being on the computer and hanging out with his guy friends ( which is ok) but he has to take care of your needs first, as you are in a relationship with him. And if he can't do it, ditch him. You deserve better.
2006-10-09 11:29:28 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know you would like to do something with just him. Be open and make sure he knows your feelings. Have a game plan ready and say you would like to go to a quiet dinner, rent a couple of movies, or go bowling. Something like that. If he doesn't know you want to spend time alone or be romantic then you can't blame him if he doesn't think of it.
2006-10-09 11:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by vancie121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it could be that he feels he doesn't have to be romantic any more, you have to sit him down and talk to him, ask him how does he see the relationship working so far, then ask him where does he see the two of you going and if there is a problem then ask how can we work this out? something like that......
2006-10-09 11:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by lovargirl158 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel, if you hold all your problems inside it will only make you wonder what if? Right? well I suggest you let him know and plan a day for you two to have dinner go out to a club/bar or rent a movie snuggle and just talk.
2006-10-09 11:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by Pretty me :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are worried about upsetting him at the boyfriend stage its time to initiate romance with someone else. no one needs a third wheel tagging along.
2006-10-09 11:32:57 · answer #6 · answered by deirdre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you surprise him when he gets home from work or something. take him out somewhere nice just you and him. If he really doenst want to spend quality time with you, you just have to realise that its not meant to be and you should reconsider your relationship
2006-10-09 11:28:06 · answer #7 · answered by Knowitall 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
flirt with his buddies, the waiters, etc. let him know you're a hot commodity. nothing riles up a man more than competition.
2006-10-09 11:28:57 · answer #8 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just shy like me
2006-10-09 11:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋