been on here b4 regarding this person: you ask him a question, he thinks avoiding it is cute (it's past annoying). I finally had my fill of it and note that now when we talk, he either tries to engage me in a debate / when he sees I am not interested tries to spark an argument / just makes some sort of remark he thinks would get me to go back and forth with him. As a result, our conversations have gone from 2plus hours at any given moment to a strain to conversate with him for a good half hour before he starts with his antics. He is over 30, and I think he now see's that the coy thing has worn it's welcome with me. He is now grabbing at things to keep us conversating and overall he isn't a bore, so my question is: Do I continue to deal with this dude at all (seems he's coming around to maturing) or do I just wean from him and let him continue with his Peter Pan way of life?
2006-10-09 11:06:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just playing devils advocate here, but I am guessing he doesn't look at you and see a perfect gf, you know? Just a thought. Liking someone totally and liking everything about them are two entirely different concepts.
2006-10-09 11:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rose, I agree 100 % with Lorena26. It's the same people who give the thumbs down to the same people everyday. This is exactly why I put myself on a Yahoo holiday for several months. Now I just answer (YES - you do ask a question) but don't even wish anyone a good morning or I get 3 TD's. Don't stop your question. I can't start my day without Rose.
2016-03-28 03:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am not sure what your asking however..Life is too short to engage in any useless BS.. You have to know what you want and what you will accept in this.. You control your smiles, your peace, you can wait for him to grow in a man then leave you? I believe you need to find a man is that equal to you. someone you can vibe with. I am sure you want peaceful memories and lungs that can relax a tad bit.. Soul search yourself for you true answer.
2006-10-09 11:13:18 · answer #3 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's annoying, I see no point in carrying it on. Obviously he feels he'll keep your attention in whatever method that works. If you find it a challange or the least bit interesting, then stay with it.
But my opinion is that it wouldnt prove enjoyable for me.
2006-10-09 11:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a part of you is enjoying it. Let the man vent.
2006-10-09 11:11:21 · answer #5 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol.......no comment
2006-10-09 11:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋