OK IVE KNOW THIS GUY FOR ABOUT 4MOTHS NOW WE GET ALONG GREAT, I LIKE HIM AND HE LIKES ME TOO!! WERE BOTHS SINGLE PARENTS. ALL OUR FRIEND SAY WE ARE GREAT FOR EACHOTHER, BUT THE OTHER DAY I EXPRESSED HOW I TRULLY FEEL TO THIS GUY, I LET HIM KNOW THAT I LOVED HIM (YES I SAID THE "L" WORD) I TRULY MEAN IT. EVER SINCE THAT DAY I HAVE NOT HEAD FROM HIM I HAVE TRIED TO CALL HIM AND NO ANSWER. DID I DO SOMETHING, THAT I WAS NOT SUPPOSED TO. I MEAN WE HAVE GONE OUT BEFORE AND HES TOLD ME HE LIKES ME AS WELL. I FEEL LIKE THE ONLY TIME I DECIDE TO TAKE A RISK IT BLOWS UP IN MY FACE! I NEVER BELIVED IN LOVE A FIRST SIGHT BUT SINCE I MET HIM IM RECONSIDERING THAT STATEMENT. I DINT THINK I WAS GOING TO FALL FOR SOME ONE LIKE THAT. PLZ ANY INSIGHT WILL BE APPRECIATED.
2006-10-09 11:03:31 · 8 answers · asked by picies83 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are lot's of "maybe" here and i won't start writing them.Give it a little more time.And most of all don't give up.And as for the love at first sight.Don't worry you haven't gone nutts.Just don't give up thats the secret.Love is worth fighting for.
Think and i'm shure you'll get the best in life.Here is my id if you want to ask me more "great_duke_of_segorean"
2006-10-09 11:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by DUKE OF SEGOREAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't regret the risk. If he was not going to work out anyways, why not find out sooner rather than later? He very well could be scared by what you said because he knows he feels it too and maybe he's a little uncomfortable letting himself get attatched. Just give him some time and space, but don't wait around longer than you can do without going crazy. No "maybe" relationship is worth it.
2006-10-09 11:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys in the beginning do not like the "L" word too much responsiblity - you being a single parent -most guys feel like you might be looking for a husband for your kids-- and he might just be getting over his ex or may still have feelings for her - hoping they could maybe get back together -- relax and let time run its course-- you just spoke your heart and he wasn't ready for it, he is gun shy at love and a relationship --let it be at love and just enjoy each other's company and see what develops
2006-10-09 11:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ladder Captain-29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has some feelings to you but not same as yours to him , what you did was not wrong and what he did by stop seeing/calling you shows also that he is honest and decent because he does not want to play and take advantage and abuse you , some men ( and i am one of them ) feel afraid of hearing this from a lady because it will need commitment from their side which they will declare in the right time .
2006-10-09 11:19:04 · answer #4 · answered by MIKE IVANA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just talked to him and his phone has been broken, he said he will come over tonight and promises to knock the bottom out of it.
2006-10-09 11:06:34 · answer #5 · answered by Ask S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obveousely scared him away. but it`s not you`re fault. men want sex, wemen love. that`s the way it goes. the search goes on...
2006-10-09 11:16:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did fine...
Calm down..
Have a little patience...
2006-10-09 11:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you blew it lil' miss force your emotions on him, he doesn't need this crap
2006-10-09 11:06:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋