(This is to all GROWN men). Do you like it or would you rather them ask you out?
What would you want them to say, if so? Whats appropriate?
2006-10-09 11:01:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What should she say (when asking)
2006-10-09 11:04:09 · update #1
I think its perfectly fine for a women to ask a guy out. Why not, women are no different than men in that aspect. They have as much right to ask a guy out, besides this allows the women to do the picking. I would be flattered if a women asked me out. I would want the women to be honest and ask how ever she is comfortable asking. Unfortunately some guys ask women out just hoping to get her in bed , and those same guys would probably think she is asking him out for the same reason. He might think "Oh baby she wants me" . You have to be sure they are made sure that is not the case. By the way I`m in my 50s I hope that is grown up enough for you.
2006-10-09 11:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by richard b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would welcome it. Kind of ironic though, because so many women like to use phrases like very independent, empowered and all that other stuff, but this is one of those things they won't do. It's easier for you women to sit back and play the prize so you don't have to be the one that possibly gets rejected or gamed. Guys have to be careful too. If a women comes on too easy, it could mean she's trouble in the waiting for you, i.e. she wants something from you or she's married looking for an affair. Been there once, won't deal with it again..
2006-10-09 11:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by Jon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both. That's nothing wrong for a woman to ask a man out.But carrefull with the way you do it. Some man like to be direct some of them no. What to say? That you'll figure out in that moment. Be spontaneus and you'll get the best succes.
2006-10-09 11:05:55 · answer #3 · answered by DUKE OF SEGOREAN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how I find her attractive and her personality, and I would love a women to ask me out it would relieve my stress of having asking out a women. I just kidding, actually it would relieve stress, but it does works both ways. I would be flattered!! She must ask me politely and nicely, not bossy, during a good conversation or after it. What you should should not do is stalk a guy. It scares people away.
2006-10-09 11:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes a strong and self assured woman to ask a man out .please ask a man out for lunch.it tells the man you may be looking for something serious and you are serious about knowing them a little better.don't do dinner.it creates the impression you want to do the sack right away.
2006-10-09 11:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly appropriate...
What would I say ?
Probably yes...
2006-10-09 11:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happened just today, she asked if i'd like to go to a halloween dance/party. i was humble and honoured and said yes.
2006-10-09 11:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by ron and rasta 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It works both way. I am cool with that.
2006-10-09 11:03:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally cool...unless i have shown that im not interested and it came out of nowhere.
2006-10-09 11:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by wizzpack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its cool with me, how do you fancy going out some time.
2006-10-09 11:05:45 · answer #10 · answered by tashton2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋