have always encouraged him to use his gift of music for this purpose (he plays guitar) But he still also wants to play his rock music and possibly be in a rock band as well, should I make him choose one or the other? Does it matter that he does both? I'm hoping he'll eventually feel and get into more of the Godly music and make up his mind on his own, or should I make it for him?
2006-10-09 10:15:54 · 17 answers · asked by Veronika 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
have always encouraged him to use his gift of music for this purpose (he plays guitar) But he still also wants to play his rock music and possibly be in a rock band as well, should I make him choose one or the other? Does it matter that he does both? I'm hoping he'll eventually feel and get into more of the Godly music and make up his mind on his own, or should I make it for him?
Let me add that I like Christian Rock but thats not what he is listening to, he listens to some christian rock but mainly wordly rock is what I meant.
2006-10-09 10:26:41 · update #1
>My son is starting to play worship with a youth bible group, ...
Play worship??
Perhaps to play music for worship at a youth Bible Group
Sounds good. Is the group "good" too?
Understandably you may have concerns about his still being interested in some of the "secular" rock music. Personally, sometimes I can't even understand the words ... guess I'm fortunate. But likely if he doesn't be into drugs, rebellion, etc. then maybe just be content for him to deal with the "both".
Being in the youth BIBLE STUDY group and if he is enjoying playing with their band .... maybe the "Word" will speak to him about the other ... and maybe some of the "leaders" of the group might, too. Perhaps he might take it better from them than from his "mother"?
2006-10-09 10:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't rock music be Godly? I grew up in a Christian church and we always listened to Christian punk rock et al--heck, some of the good ones I still listen to.
2006-10-09 10:18:09 · answer #2 · answered by angk 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who he's playing with. You should be more concerned about the character of his friends and associates than the label on his music. That will make more of a long-term difference. If it's possible, it would be good not to force a choice unless it is seriously interfering with school work or other more important activities. Your son is going to be using the skills that you have taught him to make his decisions. I'd tread carefully here... and pray much for patience and wisdom.
Hoping the best for you...
2006-10-09 10:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by Debra N 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your son is old enough let him make his own decision. When I was growning up we were involved with church and I listed to rock music and my parents didn't mind. So let him decided for himself . As long as he goes to church and is saved and been baptize I believe that if you pray God will show him the right way.
My husband and I are involved in Church of Christ and we still listen to rock music so it is okay.
2006-10-09 10:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey! Some of the best worship music is rock!
Fr. Stan Fortuna - Catholic Rap
Holy Hip Hop has it's own website.
Seven Sorrows
Third Day
Casting Crowns
Go for it!!!
2006-10-09 10:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by Max Marie, OFS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rock music isnt going to hurt him, if you make up his mind for him all it will do is make him rebelous. (dont missunderstand me i think parents do have the final say and that you should be able to say no if you think it will be bad for him) this kinda depends on his age and maturity. if you think he can handle it go for it. however if you think that the rock music will lead him away from God (not to be confused with just the music) then by all means make up his mind for him
2006-10-09 10:30:20 · answer #6 · answered by SwordDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it matters. If you want him to get sucked into the world of body piercings, tattoos and showing of his BVDs, guide him toward the rock band.
Been there, done than, bought the shirt.
You are the parent for a reason.
2006-10-09 10:24:37 · answer #7 · answered by ___ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do not push Him.... Just pray he will Do the right thing... God Does not push us. Talk to him tell him what you feel. Tell im whats right .. Remind him That music was make for Worship.. But tell him he needs to choose...
Exactly: He wont depart from him.. Pray
Proverbs 22:6, "Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it."
2006-10-09 10:25:14 · answer #8 · answered by x0hEEE 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The worst decision any parent can make is making their kid's decisions for them. Let him do what he wants. Who knows, he might throw the two together and start a Christian rock band.
2006-10-09 10:19:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Let him make up his own mind. If you try to make it for him he is liable to put it down altogether. Focus your praise on the gospel he plays and downplay the rock. Chances are if he is a teenager, he will grow out of the rock faze as his faith in God grows stronger.
2006-10-09 10:20:27 · answer #10 · answered by mortgagegirl101 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋