She pushes me to be around her as much as possible but doesn't really care about having a "good time" when together. We fight too often. I can't even leave her as she has attempted suicides everytime things went worse between us. What to do?
2006-10-09 10:02:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no way than to bear it. be calm. compromise and live. no arguments.
2006-10-09 11:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say goodbye to her and mean it.
if she does that fake "suicide threat" thing, calll the police- they'll take her to the psych ward and she'll either learn a lesson, or get the help she needs.
She's out of control and you sticking around is only making her worse. She needs some serious help- as in psychotherapy.
2006-10-09 10:08:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn, I'm sorry. The first thing to do that came up in my head was......... Drop her off at the hospital sike ward and tell her than that it is over. Or you could introduce her to a really hot guy that trys to get with her. And sooner or later she will give in to the other dude and you will be able to blame it on her as to why you broke up.
Good luck and hide the knives
2006-10-09 10:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by HappyMama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Phew man!
that seems one big bundle of....ahem trouble or cuddle..
Yeah i mean u can see this as trouble or u cud turn her round to cuddle u up....
I know ...pst..coz i wuz like that a while ago...but bless him....my boyfriend is sooo caring and understanding that i well turned around and started trusting him...
im sure ur gal will turn too to cuddle u up..
hey the secret is try telling her what u r doing each day and where u r hanging out with your friends try speaking to her abt your conversations wid your frds...evryday.
and try getting her popular among all your frds.....tell her occasionally how your frds ask u abt how she is(well-wishy ...nature) n stuff.....
and if u dnt mnd it at all..try keeping her online (i mean literally let her be on the fone with u and let her listen to u speak with yur frds whn u guys meet up fr a casual hangout....)
and she's yurs in heart and soul............. :-)
this shows her that u dont intend to hide anything from her and are completely hers..... :-)
HEY but I SERIOUSLY dunno ABOUT the SUICIDE STUFF.....dude...I LOVE TO LIVE MY LIFE AND TO ITS FULLEST....try the above and if it doesnt work then she definitely needs a psychiatrist......
2006-10-09 11:27:20 · answer #4 · answered by Hmmm_well_its_me! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to urgently consult psychatrist and find out why is she so depressed she has gone to the extent of attempting sucide i guess may be she is not saying the correct reasons only psychatrist can understand may be she has some [phobia so rush yourself to the doctor if you are late and she takes exteme step may be you need to spend rest of your life in jail so hurry up and try to get the bottom of the problem
2006-10-09 10:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by cupiddear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out of the relationship because she is abusing you and black mailing you with her suicide talk. If she says she will kill herself you call the police and tell them the situation. Tell them that you are leaving and that she will physically harm herself and it is their responsiblity to handle it from that point. You cannot continue to make yourself miserable for her and you cannot feel guilty for anything that she chooses to do to herself.
2006-10-09 10:07:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are a number of stuff - this city i'm caught residing in (the domicile, as properly); faith and the non secular majority; the confines of time and hindsight; extreme college; and the incontrovertible fact that no count how lots I care aboot issues like international Warming or animal rights, humanity in its apathetic cruelty will piss all of it away and devolve in aboot 1000 years.
2016-11-27 03:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is your responsibility to make it clear to know about wat u think about her .... listening and silence will reduce half of your fights ...ego cannot build a healthy relationship ...finally spend time with her ... give her the proper explanation why you cannot be with her if not..understanding ..give some space between relationship ...make her understand ..know why is she suspicious ...give time take some pain ..finally consult a good counsellor ..
2006-10-09 10:11:43 · answer #8 · answered by tamanaahamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing i can share with you...She must be reffered to a psychiatrist.....that is not LOVE....and too much will really kill you..EEEwwwww...she really needs help..
2006-10-09 13:43:25 · answer #9 · answered by xrae12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her for counselling
2006-10-09 10:20:25 · answer #10 · answered by Narayanan B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋