this girl is pretty into me, i got her number, we barely know eachother, should i call her? should i make plans? if so, what would be a good first date thing to do (like bowling, movies, etc)?
2006-10-09 09:59:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call her. She may have something in mind already, so get off the computer and call her NOW!
2006-10-09 10:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find activities that she likes to do... Some women like it when you include them in the planning... Others want to be told...
Here's what I'd suggest... Plan something with her that YOU enjoy(ie opening up to her)... Something interactive...
Let's say you like skateboarding... Take her to the park with your board, some additional pads and a helmet... You show her some of your skills... Then walk her through some of the easier ones... AFTER you've done something you enjoy... "Are you hungry?" There's a great place for hamburger, pizza, etc... Not far from here, would you like to go there?
Once you've settled the place to sit down and talk... You order for HER... What would you like? "We would like a pizza with pepperoni and sausage... She'll have a Mountain Dew and I'll have a Sierra Mist."
When you're waiting on your food... "Wow, that was fun, I hope you enjoyed the skateboarding... It really takes my mind off things and gets my blood rushing... What kind of activities do you like to unwind?" (Conversation... TAKE MENTAL NOTES...)
"I love most activities like water skiing, swimming, hanging out at the beach..." Guess where she likes to go? Maybe you can combine on the next date... Like Roller blading near the boardwalk or surfing...
Well, you probably knew all that, but there are some ideas to get you rolling.
2006-10-09 10:12:22 · answer #2 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok all is being said CALL HER,,,dont waste ur time..dont wait for anybody to get this oppurtunity to knoe her..make plans such as have dinner or go to a coffe shop to talk for more exciting things to know about her..coz sometimes in movie houses u cannot talk that much so u need a good plan like having a dinner..
dont just sit there call her..it is ur time to shine man!!
2006-10-09 10:07:24 · answer #3 · answered by Student 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her! I wouldn't recommend the movies on the first date though, you won't be able to talk. (but you could make out!)
2006-10-09 10:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by SexxyPrincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, wait a couple days and call her. Appetizers and drinks maybe. Wait- I don't know how old you are. Bowling is fun too.
2006-10-09 10:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by apriljm76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys who wait to call, while they kid themselves into believing its to make themselves look cooler than they really are, are actually afraid to call. make the call you weasel, or someone else will. you think that's the only set of digits she's given out lately? I'd take her bowling btw, only because no one will have ever thought to have done that.
2006-10-09 10:05:55 · answer #6 · answered by no_wait_hes_spartacus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to get to know her better. Why not invite her out for dinner? Remember that the shortest way to a woman's heart is thru the stomach.
Good luck
2006-10-09 10:06:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call her. Life is short. Be proactive. Go out & get to know her. You might find her to be fantastic or if it doesn't work out, then at least you will know & you won't have to waste time wondering about it.
2006-10-09 10:06:08 · answer #8 · answered by peace_iris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and ask her to go to the movies. Great idea!
2006-10-09 10:03:03 · answer #9 · answered by stickinthemud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she gave you her number, yeah dude, go for it; a casual dinner would be nice for the first date.
2006-10-09 10:03:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋