Ok. So all these girls hit on me all the time and some of them are even hot. Honestly, they do. But I just like this one girl who is always yelling at me and telling me im stupid all the time. Why don't I like the girls that are nice to me? My last gf treated me really bad also. But I finally left her. Took me a long time to get over that one. But the question is "Is this normal?" also, i'm not really stupid, she just says that, i have a 4-yr degree. not that that means much anymore.
2006-10-09 09:57:58 · 24 answers · asked by m deal 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
does she looks better then those other girls ?
I bet she swallows :))
2006-10-09 10:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by Myself 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's interesting. I have a similar situation as you. I'm serious. I strive for the gentle sincere, friendly female, but I always end up with the angry callous b-itch. This means that you find those who are pickier to be more attractive. You think that if she's a hard person to please that you must really be worthy of your value where the ones that like you, you feel are just those who like you only for your looks.
It's very common for attractive males to wind up with angry old hags. I'm not sure what to suggest because I have a similar dilemma.
I notice that all the girls I find cute are normally hard to talk to, very judgmental and overly protective types.
You aren't stupid, but I think you value a person you trust more than a person who is attracted to you. Sometimes, the b-itchy angry ones are more honest and there's a certain appeal to that odd form of honesty.
2006-10-09 10:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No perfectly normal lots of guys want the unattainable - because shes nasty to you, you want her more.
If it gets too easy whats the point.
May hap you feel its right deep down that shes having a go because you aren't pushing yourself as much as you can.
My thought is go for the easier hot girls you don't need the headache and do it now.
2006-10-09 10:24:28 · answer #3 · answered by Aerroc 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You probably do not need a shrink you just need to change your habits. Go out with a nice girl instead of a mean one you may find out you like it VERY much.
2006-10-09 10:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by jusme 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are still coming to the realisation that you are a sub.
All those Dom women ordering you around and degrading you and yet you seem to like it...
Keep an open mind though because it does not mean you are into whips and all that. You just like verbal abuse...
2006-10-09 10:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by Ren Hoek 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is a little natural to be attracted to someone who is not so into us... But, It is not cool or a healthy thing to be attracted to
someone who is abusive..If you are attracted to smeone who is abusive then you do need to look at it for Real. There are all these self-esteem issues that a psychologist could help you identify, Most of us need this kind of help so....No big deal...Lennon
2006-10-09 10:03:25 · answer #6 · answered by LENNON3804 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweet dreams are made of these. Who I'm I to disagree. I traveled the world from the seven seas. Every body's looking for something....some of them want to abuse you, and some of want to be abused.
No, you just like to be the inferior one within the relationship. If it works for you, then have at it...
2006-10-09 10:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What? you want a shrink for what reason...for all the chicks hitting on you and some dumb broad yelling at you! how old r u man?!
2006-10-09 10:00:47 · answer #8 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go find a nice girl, why would you want someone that treats you bad...Don't you think you deserve to be treated with respect?
2006-10-09 10:01:38 · answer #9 · answered by Tracy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you want you can see a shrink but i think maybe something in your life or past might reflect the type of girls you like right now.
2006-10-09 10:01:13 · answer #10 · answered by slai171 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU SOUND A BIT SADISTIC TO ME
HAVING WOMEN TREAT YOU LIKE SHITT IS NOT NORMAL
BUT IF YOU PREFER IT THAT WAY THEN WE CANT STOP YOU.
IF YOU WANT ABUSE THEN GET A GF WHO IS NICE BUT KNOWS THE WORLD OF S&M/BONDAGE.
SHE CAN BEAT YOUR ASSS GOOD AND TREAT YOU LIKE SCUM IN THE BEDROOM BUT IS A SWEETHEART THE REST OF THE TIME!
2006-10-09 10:03:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋