this guy that i've been liking for a little while and i thought liked me totally dogged me on my birthday. my friends threw me a bomb @ss party and i invited this guy to come with me (cuz i liked him obviously) and everyone was getting faded and i had planned the whole night to stay at his house and so did he, well at about 4 in the morning we left and he was driving my car for obvious reasons, but all of the sudden he wanted to know how i was gonna get home after we got to his truck, so we had this girl come with us so she could drive my car back, well she ended up just back at the house with us and he was like totally all up on her sh!t while this whole time he's acted like he was into me. well i got pissed and left (drunk too) and i don't know that he noticed until the next day and i haven't heard from him since friday, so the question is what do i do from here? still talk to him? ignore him? act like i even cared? what's the best?
2006-10-09 09:56:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what an ASSS!!! forget about him, especially if he ditched you on your BD, when you already had plans!!
Sheesh, and everyone should get laid on their BD!!!!
blow him off, pretend it didnt even bother you other than a small comment about "whoever was so irresponsible to let me have my keys and drive drunk shoud be kicked in the nuts" hahaha
2006-10-09 09:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok listen. MAybe your emotions were running a little high because you were so faded. (always liked that saying) IS it possible that he wasn't all up in her ****, and was just tring to make her not feel like the third wheel she was. Maybe he just didn't want you when you were so hammered. Maybe he was afraid that you would fell a little taken advantage of? Or maybe he just isn't that into you. If you still like him and he is single sure still talk to him. If he is into you he WILL CALL. If you mean last friday 2days ago that dosen't mean nothing. Its to soon if you kinda made an *** out of yourself when you left. Just wait, if he dosen't call, just pretend it didn't happen the next time you bump into him, time heals all. CAn't wait to get back to the mountains snow girl. Vail this year.
2006-10-09 10:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by brooklyn 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
omg i was dating a guy who did that on my birthday..he ruined it. i planned a big ol ' beach party, and he was to meet all my friends for the first time. he was a total d*ck..he hung out w/ his friend, and didn't talk w/ my friends except for one wearing the shortest skirt, and he kept looking at her. he was sooo nasty! so i dumped him, later turned out he did it on purpose cuz he was too lame to break it off himself. stupid jerk....i'm so glad i got rid of him..it's just extra drama u Don't need!! i want a boyfriend who makes my bday Awesome, is nice to my friends, and we all have a great time.. not make me sad. u deserve better, have some confidence in yourself!
u know what... after that guy, i was realllly sad...cuz i liked him a LOT. so u know what i did? i went to the gym and worked out so hard, everytime i saw his face i ran Harder..i lost weight, and started trying to "look" better so i could feel better. it worked!! and i worked on my own confidence and my own life, and i met new boyfriend thru friend of friend...so yeah, the more happy, positive, confident YOU are, the better guy u can find. also, the more likely u will wait til u find a great guy, not just settle for any loser. good luck! :)
2006-10-09 10:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
act live it didn't phaise u gurl!! Then don't let him think anythink about u diggin him, make it clear that anyone that disrespectful and quick to get into anyones pants is a waiste of your time anyway...you need a man, not a boy.
And make sure thats it, don't give him the satisfaction of your constant hate....then he will have gotten a reaction outta u..... but make sure you are clear on your thoughts of him at least once..so it doesnt' fester
2006-10-09 10:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats horrible. When was your birthday? Mine was Friday.
Me and my roommate planned for all of my friends to come out to this one bar we chill at... everybody said they were coming... and nobody showed. This was a bad weekend for birthdays, don't beat yourself up about it.
As for the guy, you're worlds better off if thats what he's about.
2006-10-09 09:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he pulls that kinda crap, ditch him, plain and simple, ditch him
2006-10-09 09:59:02 · answer #6 · answered by krash726 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-10-09 10:00:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah, he's not worth your time at all
2006-10-09 10:01:03 · answer #8 · answered by lickablecake123 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋