Okay everyone, I have been speaking with someone online from a dating site. We have been speaking back and forth with one another for a whole month and a couple of days (we speak for hours at a time 4-8hrs max). After 10 days of speaking with one another, he put his profile in “hidden” and I did so too. Just today, I was on the same dating site and saw that he has “unhidden” his profile and open in the market. Just to point out one thing, we have not met yet, but are planning too. We have spoke about everything and anything. We spoke regards to intimacy and shared our dislikes and likes. We have expressed out feelings towards one another and declared that we “realllly” like each other. We have not said that we “love” each other because we haven’t met. I’m just confused on where things are leading. Should I question him why he has unhidden his profile? Or what if he thinks I’m being over possessive.
2006-10-09 09:41:02 · 9 answers · asked by Fairytale_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank you everyone for the responses. but, why did he hid his profile on the first place and what made him unhide his profile...
2006-10-09 09:54:00 · update #1
If you question him as to why he has unhidden his profile, he will probably just get mad at you. It seems rather obvious as to why he has done so. He wants to contact and meet other women as well. The two of you have only chatted on line, there are at this point no commitments.
Perhaps you need to unhide your profile as well. If he mentions it, then bring up his profile and what, if any, meaning you should read into it. Perhaps he is getting bored with the on line banter. It may be time to meet in person if you are going to.
You need to make sure that you do not give any impression of possessiveness. That would certainly scare him away. Whatever happens, good luck!
2006-10-09 09:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by sloop_sailor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds pretty hot to me. But, the thing is, since you said that he hid his profile, he might be a bad guy that's trying to get your private parts (boobs and penis) shown and kill you. Here are things that you can do to check him out:
(1)You can ask about where he lives and to send you a picture of himself
(2)speak sex and kissing, does he seem not interested, interested, or over interested,it's normal for guys not to like sex and for guys to like sex so I think that if he says that he isn't interested or that he's just interested, then he's fine, if he's over interested, then you should go to the next step with extreme or mild caution. He might be bad either ways so I know that you'd rather stay alive insted of killed by somebody?
(3) If he seems to be okay on step 2, then the ultimate test is to ask if he is willing to always protect you if you get married or even brake up with him. If he takes a long time to answer, then you should probably make your choice but if he says it immediately, then he is all yours and you can do whatever you want to with him.
2006-10-09 09:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so when his profile is not hidden does that mean that he's "availble"?? If thats what it is then thats messed up because he told you that he really likes you but is still looking for someone else. Dont get too upset about it though. Maybe after a while or when you finally meet him you wont really like him.
2006-10-09 09:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have not been dating for a month you have been talking to a person that may or may not be what he says. If on-line dating worked I guess no one would ever marry. What, on-line marrige. I don't want to be mean but be carfull and write him off.
2006-10-09 09:51:00 · answer #4 · answered by Nani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just let it go for now, like you have said you have not even met yet. Wait and see what happens.... if after you meet and if you become a couple then if his profile is still active question him.
2006-10-09 09:44:14 · answer #5 · answered by oracle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since u havent meet yet and havent really stated that u are dating then he probably thinks that he is still single i wouldnt read into it to much until u hang out with him and see how u really feel about him then take it from there.
2006-10-09 09:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by willyholdem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes over possessive--u haven't even met yet
take a chill pill
2006-10-09 09:43:18 · answer #7 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you this, but you ain't the only hen in the chicken coop.
2006-10-09 09:44:38 · answer #8 · answered by benninb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key word in your whole soliloquy? "Confused".
2006-10-09 09:44:03 · answer #9 · answered by Chuck N Knutz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋