If he still wants to see what's out there then he doesn't love you or respect you ,,, I mean what do you think he's going to do if he finds some one who attracts him more than you do ,,,,,And there you sit ,,,,, on needles and pins with you worried that you are ruining your relationship ,,,,,,He could easily use that for an excuse to break up with you when he did find someone else,,,,, If he loved you and respected you then he wouldn't always be looking else where to begin with ,,,, He would be wrapped up in you and making sure that you felt secure in the relationship the two of you are suppose to have So I believe that it's not you that is ruining your relationship with him ,,,,, It's him doing the damage ,,,,,, There's nothing you can do to stop him from looking ,,,, he's going to do that regardless ,,,,, So it's got you in a tizzy about what's going on ,,,, You seem convinced that you are the one causing the trouble ,,,,,,, Well ,,,,,,,,,, NOOOOT ! ! ! ,,,,,,,, It takes two fully attentive people to make a relationship ,,,,,,, Clearly his attentiveness is greatly lacking ,,,,,, Don't let this guy make a fool of you or play with your head,,,,, bring it out once and for all but get it over with ,,,,, YOU DON"T NEED THIS CRAP ,,,,,,If anyone does the breaking up then let it be you not him ,,,,You could easily turn the tables on him and use the excuse that he's always looking and that you don't like it so you are setting him free to look all he wants ,,,,, Let him do this to someone else but not you anymore He will always be looking no matter who he's going with or married to later on ,,,, And don't let him talk you out of it either ,,,, He's already done the damage ,,,,, He's not the only fish in the pond so to speak ,,,, It's your turn to start looking ,,,,,,, the ball is in your court ,,,, what are going to do with it ?,,,,, Yoda said this ,,,,, luck ,,,
2006-10-09 17:36:15
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answer #4
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answered by Anonymous
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