I've been dating this guy for 5 months now and i have mixed feelings about him. Sometimes I feel that i like him alot but then i always seem to push myself to call him. I dont like to call him and its always a struggle till i can acually get myself to call. I dont know why I thought I was just shy at first but its been 5 months now i'm not shy anymore but i still find it hard to call him. I like hanging out with him and i can see a future with him but i'm just not good with all the bf/gf stuff like constant calls n meetings n sweet talk n stuff like that. Its like he usually calls n i dont and if he doesnt I dont plus we dont talk for long, usually just ..hi how are you i hope you're fine what have you done today.. n thats it, we dont spend hours on the phone, the longest call was for about 30 minutes or so. however i dont spend alot of time on the phone with anybody anyway, i'm not really a phone kinda person... Does this mean I dont like him enough or am I just not a phone person?
2006-10-09 09:34:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think he annoys you
2006-10-09 09:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by *S* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen: relationships take work. While you're worried why you don't like to call him, he is worried that you don't call him because you are starting not to like him. If you do like him and want him, you HAVE to make the effort, not all the way, obviously, but he has to know you're interested. The other half is up to him, and I can assure you from personal experience, it is hard to give a girl you like her space, but if he does, know that that is why. You two need to talk about this stuff, just to see where each of you are at.
2006-10-09 16:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't care to call him, and you don't care if he calls you, it doesn't sound like a passionate relationship does it? Sounds like you are meant to be friends and not bf/gf. Friends, however, can become the best lovers, so don't force anything or worry about it too much, just let this relationship take its own course.
2006-10-09 16:43:04 · answer #3 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to me and my ex-bf. it went on for like 6 months and then it kind of got old (but we're still friends). think seriously about whether or not you want to be in the relationship with him on a bf/gf level or just be friends...maybe you just don't want to have a serious commitment with anyone right now...just think about it.
good luck
2006-10-12 23:35:29 · answer #4 · answered by j.deppfann<33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to expand your horizons and date more?
2006-10-09 16:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by Hun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these are normal feelings about any relationship
2006-10-09 16:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by acid tongue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋