well we were only having sex,not dating and i did extra things for him if ya know what i mean,and he decided to bring his friend in for a little fun and i did the same for his friend...and so now he s calling me out of my name and saying he's done with me...and i did this for him,to PLEASE HIM!so what do i do now?do i tell him or be like ok whatever you say...?
2006-10-09 09:09:35 · 28 answers · asked by nae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow. Honestly you probably should not have done it. He now looks down on you even though he was involved. Men are freaking pigs, remember that. Just do for you, and screw everyone else...well not literally.
2006-10-09 09:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by poisonivy4913 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sort of happened to me and my boyfriend was acting like a big jerk off after he was in the bedroom with my best friend because he wanted something different. Don't feel like it's your fault, the guilty party acts out first. Move on and get someone who doesn't want only sex. You are better than that. I moved on and now I have a happy relationship of 5 years now. Miracles do happen and stop having sex with idiots.
2006-10-09 09:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by stickinthemud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you went down on his friend as a favor to HIM? Yeah, that is too messed up.
Leave him. Go find yourself some self esteem and some self respect and learn how to set boundaries for a relationship. What guy wants to take a girl back when she is now sloppy seconds? He might have liked the freebies, but not when he knows you are giving them to anyone and everyone else.
2006-10-09 09:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.Get some self esteem
2. Stop being a hoe
3. Get a real boyfriend
4. Seek professional help!
2006-10-09 09:13:00 · answer #4 · answered by Yahoo! Answers Chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's an extra things for him that you are talking about here? and you meant, you did the extra things for both of tehm at the same time?
2006-10-09 09:15:55 · answer #5 · answered by phone_man_at_work 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should have never asked you to do that in the first place and you should have known better but if he is calling you out of your name tell him its ok that he leaves you would rather keep his friend that he is better at it any way hahah
2006-10-09 09:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by inluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to play dirty, then you will get dirty. Now he sees you as dirty. Its not very much fun. I would drop him, and move on. Be careful what you do in the future and who you do it with. Respect yourself and others will follow.
2006-10-09 09:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by lee911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. He is ungrateful. You gave all of yourself and he was mean in return. He will rue the day he let you go. Find another guy who can appreciate your ways.
2006-10-09 09:12:23 · answer #8 · answered by barter256 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you had more feelings for this guy than you want to admit. See if he wants you and another girl to square things up. if not i could use a buddy like you!!
2006-10-09 09:12:25 · answer #9 · answered by middleshoes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should dump him because he never cared about you in the first place. If he had cared, he wouldn't have wanted to share you with his friend. Guys can suck.
2006-10-09 09:12:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋