he was my high school sweetheart and we broke up about 5 years back over some girl, we lost contact. a year ago we've spent some time together, I still had a boyfriend at that stage and he was engaged, me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago and I realised I'm still inlove with my first love. now I want him back and I still remember him telling me that he still love me, but I couldn't respond because I was still in a relationship at that stage and I'm a very commited person. the problem is, he's getting married in less then two months. please help me, I'm falling!!!
2006-10-09 08:49:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't talk to your ex about your feelings you will always wonder what may have been. If this man is going to marry another woman, he must truly be in love with her; therefore chances are he has put your relationship in the past. Though the two of you might very well still love each other, not all love relationships are meant to last a lifetime. My guess is, you will both talk, cry a little, admit that you still have feelings for each other, and then he'll go on to marry someone else and you will suffer from a broken heart for a while until you too move on and find happiness with someone else. Have you heard the saying" It's all in the timing", well, the timing for the two of you was all wrong, and now one of you has moved on and found love with someone else. Talk to him, and get the closure that you need, and then take care of you.
2006-10-09 09:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, you should let him go. Just because you finally decided to love him again does not mean you can mess up his life (again).
You say you are a committed person but to me that doen't make any sense. You would stay with someone you didn't love because you had to? And let the love of your life walk away? Well, he did and he's moved on, it seems.
Just let him go.
2006-10-09 08:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by Amy T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is getting married then sweety let him go, for now. I know that it hurts. If it is meant to be then latter down the road it will work itself out. My grandfather waited for his love for about 30 years. I know that might sound crazy. He and she both got married had kids and spend the last 30 years happily.
2006-10-09 08:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by LA LA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know as soon as possible
It will haunt you for the rest of your life if you don't
2006-10-09 08:55:02 · answer #4 · answered by jak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, for goodness sake, just let him know how you still feel - that is if you can find him first.
2006-10-09 08:53:34 · answer #5 · answered by pennines123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl thats when you start working your oh so fiathful girl skills. get him to start spending more time with you, buy him stuff. get his girl to start acting a fool....lol. you know how.....your a girl. try to hook her up with another guy. MOVIE STYLE MOMMA!!!!!!! good luck
2006-10-09 08:57:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U could... tell him, or just leave him alone and get over it.
2006-10-09 08:51:59 · answer #7 · answered by lalaland 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋