In the last year and a half, lets see, I've lost a good job, had to give my nice truck up, in a divorce, my 14 yr old thinks drinking is ok, my car that I have now,broke down,now I have to move from where I live, I don't have any money as it seems, It goes toward my kids,I have three,my oldest doeswork and my 17 yr old just got a job,but before he got his job he ran my phone bill up(my oldest son) to about 500, so that got turned off, then he busted out my boyfriends windshield,cost me 250, the kids dad is totally of no help with the boys at all, with money or anything, if my youngest kid spends the night at his house he misses school every time the next day, I dont have health insurance and it cost me half my paycheck the other day to see my DR. and I had to go !! I'm not kidding, I only make 10.00 an hour. So,every time I Think I am making a right choice, it totally back fires, right up in my face !!! Neither of my kids that are working have a car so they depend on friends or me.
2006-10-09 08:43:36 · 5 answers · asked by crazartgirl 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I think you need a much needed break from life!! But unfortunately that can't happen because us gals gotta keep going.. Is there any groups or resource centers in your area? Maybe theres a church you go to that could set you up with counseling..and I agree with the others, your kids can help you financially by helping with bills getting phones in there name and paying the bill. I hope you look up some groups that help you deal with these life issues..good luck and be strong
2006-10-09 10:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by tazzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things are going to get better because two of your kids are working so they will be helping you out soon (make sure of that) make everyone responsible for themselves now, and as for the youngest I would make him cut grass, take out trash and wash cars to get my 250 bucks back. And now that you have to move go for a 1 to 2 bedroom unless the other 2 are paying for extra space don't carry the weight on your shoulders anymore and don't let your sons be worthless like their father.
2006-10-09 09:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Butler ♥2 B♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm only 23 and i haven't had as many hardships as you are enduring but i know how it feels to be totally exhausted from all your comfortable rescources!!! I thought it would never get any better but it will i know your tired and overwhelmed but just think it will not always be this bad, things will and do get better!!
2006-10-09 09:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, I have felt that way. Divorced, broke, and 3 kids, but I kept repeating to myself....."What doesn't kill me, will make me stronger" and it did.
It will get better...go have a bubble bath.
2006-10-09 09:21:47 · answer #4 · answered by gemma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I feel like it, too.
2006-10-09 12:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by catzrme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋