soooo.what can i do?is ther any answer to help me?
2006-10-09 08:35:10 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Sura 4 (Nisa), Ayat 3. One of the most powerful laws mankind has ever experienced on this planet.
This is the only place where the Qura’an not encourages but permits Muslim men to have up to 4 wives (only from Ahle Kitab) at one time. This law had/have serious effects on millions of Muslim co-wives and their children, forever. And so it is extremely important to look at it once again.
Becareful girl!!!
From an ex muslim
2006-10-09 08:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he loves you, you won't have to cover.
He'll have to make that decision. Which is more important to him: his faith or his wife? If it is the former, then you will have to move on. It is very unlikely that you'll have a successful marriage if you have to be "the other woman."
This is why interfaith marriages are difficult. When two people do not agree on such fundamental aspects of life, then they will continuously conflict. If your boyfriend insists that you cover when you don't want to, then what other issues will you have? Most likely, it'll come down to the fact that he doesn't believe you'll be in Heaven with him. Some religious people are okay with that, but if he's not okay with you having your head exposed, then you can bet he won't be okay with the notion of you not going to Heaven.
Judging by the way you type, I'm guessing you're a young person. Not to be incredibly cliche, but there are other fish in the sea. A happy marriage is one where the people involved are able to be on the same page in most regards in life. You should at least agree on the major aspects of life: religion, politics, family planning, and spending habits.
2006-10-09 08:37:38 · answer #2 · answered by Rev Kev 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love should notbe based on anything else but the conection of two hearts. If he truly loves you the way you love him, he feels the same way, and acceots you, covered or not. And he wouldn't want to change what he has fallen for.
I met this man on here the other day, he was an atheist, and his wife was a catholic. And for their baby, they will teach him about the life around, and let him choose his own path.
If you want to marry him, and he returns the feeling, then do it, Life is too short, take time to enjoy what has been placed before you.
2006-10-09 08:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by danksprite420 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask him this? You should work this out between you. There are lots of muslim guys who are open minded and lots who are very conservative and lots who will be one when they're young and another when they are old.
What is his family like? Are they strictly religious? Are all the women covered? Even the young ones? Do they go out to work?
You don't have to be covered to be a muslim and anyway you shouldn't convert for his sake but at the end of the day he may want you to live as his mother does and if not as his sister does at least.
2006-10-09 09:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by airmonkey1001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry a conservative man like that you will not only have a lot of pressure from him but also his family. Step past the blindness that comes with love and realize the life you are choosing. Scary, friend. I kinda hope this is a joke and you are baiting the people who don't like islam here.
2006-10-09 08:39:32 · answer #5 · answered by Love Shepherd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT MARRY HIM, until he converts to your religion. Or you WILL be sorry. If you want to know how he will treat you, look at how the women in his life are treated. Like his mother, sisters, co-workers, etc. If he will not convert, it is because he is not in love with you , he is in love with the idea of you, and that is not the same thing.
2006-10-09 08:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and tell him you want to get married, get his input, he may prefer and try to convert you to Islam. Covering the body or the head is not one of the five requirements to be a Muslim, he may still try to convinve you to do so, good luck
2006-10-09 08:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by HK3738 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'd be better off becoming a sweatshop worker in downtown Compton. Good luck to you, hope God guides your heart and mind.
2006-10-09 08:39:59 · answer #8 · answered by Goddess of Nuts PBUH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a person that shares the same religious interests as yourself. Makes it easier if you decide to have children.
2006-10-09 08:37:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Covering may soon be the least of your problems.
If you can find someone of a more tolerant religion, I strongly recommend it.
2006-10-09 08:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by WikiJo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋