2006-10-09 08:27:03 · 20 answers · asked by roy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Submissive! I love it when the guy takes control. Pushing me up against a wall...all that masculinity. I LOVE IT. Telling me what to do. That's why I'm with a man and not a woman.
2006-10-09 08:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have a very equal role in our relationship. I may have a bit more of a lead in our day to day life but I always defer to him when the issue is important. A man has to feel like a man. And as far as sexually I like him to take complete control. That way we're both put in our places.
2006-10-09 08:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both, I believe in a relationship there should not just be one role or the other. It takes both parties to be equal for it to work.
2006-10-09 08:29:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather lead, cause that's just how I roll...
BUT I require a man that knows when its time to take over, because no one can be in the driver's seat 100% of the time :).
2006-10-09 08:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by 452 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiancee likes to be in control at home and in the bedroom. She says I can be the boss at work, but she wants/needs to be in charge at home. She says I come home too bossy, like she works for me. Well, she's been the boss at home for 6 months now and things work out perfectly. Her leather paddle does sting though. So, I stay inline most of the time.
2006-10-09 09:09:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well........i don't see the point of the 'lead role'....1. i'm not good at taking control and 2. i dont really want to cos then that'll spoil the relationship wiht my special some1........So i want both of us to share the role....50% 50%. GOod Luck......
ps.....who ever's in ur pic is cute! lol
2006-10-09 08:29:23 · answer #6 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally like to feel I'm in control in some situations but I like to be controlled mostly. I like the guy to take the lead, but keep my feelings in consideration.
2006-10-09 08:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by Laurel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
submissive...definately! I'm not confident enough to dominate the relationship...though I do enjoy being worshiped...hummm...what a conundrum!
2006-10-09 08:32:18 · answer #8 · answered by Katelyn P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bit of both. I'm not good at making decisions for both of us, and I don't like to sound like I'm an over controling b****, but if he wants me to stop talking to my friends, or is abusing me cause I'm not doing what he says, then I'm not afraid to fight back. You see, it's a thin line for me.
2006-10-09 08:30:40 · answer #9 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the guy, but more often than not, i like to play the submissive realtionship
2006-10-09 08:30:01 · answer #10 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋