I've just started to go out with this guy and we've went out before and have been friends for 3 years. He says that he really likes me and wants us to last but he's really sexual. I like him a lot and care for him quite a bit. How should I go about telling him that this he how I feel??? Its not that i don't want to do things with him it's just that i want to wait and see if we're gonna last.
2006-10-09 08:21:55 · 6 answers · asked by Michele 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who can blame you? I think if he is the type of guy to give you problems because you don't have sex with him, he's not the type of guy you want. If he really cares about you, he will wait until you are ready. Stick to your values, you will be glad you did.
2006-10-09 08:26:15 · answer #1 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him just that.
No need in sugar coating it, tell him you have morals and he should respect that.
That is what most likely drew him to you over the last 3 years, so don't give up now girl!
Peace!
2006-10-09 15:25:38 · answer #2 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand your ground. Intimacy is something that makes a couple closer, it's natural not to want to do that right off the bat.
2006-10-09 15:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him. If he really is a good man he will understand.
2006-10-09 15:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are like crack addicts...once we get a taste we can't get enough. It rules our lives, ruins relationships and tears apart marraiges.
2006-10-09 15:26:57 · answer #5 · answered by bardstale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him know u wanna go slow to see where u guys go
2006-10-09 15:24:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋