About a week ago I was playfighting with my boyfriend and hit him in the privates on accident. He was on the floor for a LONG time, with an agony face and kinda pale, and he was not saying anything, I got sooo scared!!! Then when he finally started feeling better he asked me for a glass of water with a shaky voice. He was so weak that barely could hold the glass! I hugged him and I could feel his heart beating fast. When he recovered we talked about it, and I said how sorry I was but he got angry and was always saying that I should be more careful.
The problem is after that he is avoiding me, and when I am with him he is kinda indifferent to me, and before that he was always so caring and sweet. Oh please help me; I don’t want to lose him!!!!!!
2006-10-09 08:21:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys are real sensitive in the area where the sun don't shine.When you were playfighting you may not of thought it hurts that much, but it does!I don't think he'll leave you just try being more careful.
2006-10-09 08:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is very painful, provided you got him in just the right spot, but it just doesn't last all that long. About 30 minutes. The greatest possiblity of injury would come with an extremely strong blow in the upwards direction which could cause retraction. This situation usually reverses itself after the injured person calms a little.
If he is being a jerk about that, maybe you should take a look around. There are more bf out there that this one.
2006-10-09 08:25:48 · answer #2 · answered by credo quia est absurdum 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he still isn't over this, then it is his problem. Not yours. You said sorry. I have been hit there many times by my kids and my wife on accident. It hurts, no doubt, but holding a grudge about this is just childish or there is something else going on in the relationship. To ask you to be more careful is asking you to walk on eggshells around him. Gee, what if you were reaching for it to do something enjoyable for him and accidently bump him there. Is he going to flip out?
2006-10-09 08:27:20 · answer #3 · answered by bernie_bernoulli 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buy him a Jock with a protective cup and another apology, you either really got him good or he is a wuss, was there any swelling.
A friend of mine got kneed so hard doctors had to remove one testicle it has swollen to the size of a grapefruit. I was kicked their once and I know how it hurts, but you get over it.
He may be feeling that way because you have seen him weak.
2006-10-09 08:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if he's going to avoid you due to an accident, he ain't worth having. Accidents happen, you apologized, incident should be over & you both move ahead. If he can't forgive this, you are better off without him. What will he do when you hurt him in the future with words and/or deeds?
2006-10-09 08:24:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
For starters you both were rough housing with one an other accidents do happen and you apologized what more does he want you to do? Now had you of just hauled off and hit him there cause you were mad then he'd have the right to be mad and upset but thats not the case he should accept your apology and next time He needs to protect himself.
2006-10-09 08:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by Brenda H 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i do no longer understand why all you women do no longer understand the severe quantity of discomfort linked with being struck contained in the testicles. it truly is excruciating, humiliating, and entirely sickening discomfort. as quickly as a boy reports it he needs to stay away from it. additionally, maximum cases it leads to significant harm to the testicle and ought to reason a boy to be sterile. Yours develop into an twist of destiny in line with risk he gets over it.
2016-10-02 03:09:53 · answer #7 · answered by bugenhagen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the sarcastic words of a friend," Awwww poor baby." He needs to get over it. If you 2 are adults with a intercourse relationship maybe u can do one of his fantasys to cheer him up. In your not a aldult don't listen to me.
2006-10-09 08:26:10 · answer #8 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your guy just wana behave tht way so that you can ask laters whats wrong Or what can you do to solve this mess and he can ask abt an BJ,sex kind of stuff..... I may be wrong but i can be right also!
2006-10-09 08:27:40 · answer #9 · answered by Keith 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him you love him and you are sorry
basically suck up to him
be real nice
I got kicked there before to...ouch...
buy him a cup...so next time it doesn't hurt...ha ha ha ha ha ha ha habah aha ah bah a ahab ah a that's funny
2006-10-09 08:29:45 · answer #10 · answered by Jesus Freak!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋