Everytime in the last couple of months i get more and more turned on by my gf everytime im with her.And many times even when she's not there.Sumtimes ive to hide my...well u know the hard mass from her.Now she's 18 and im 19.I dunno how to bring out this topic to her...coz i luv her and i dont want this to end with her thinkin im some pervert.i want this to continue.So shud i ask her to go for it as in u knwo the next step or shud i just keep quite?It's not that she's totally religious or anyhting it's just that everytime i picture even bringing out the topic i picture the worst
2006-10-09 08:18:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't need to be shy about anything. Just come out and tell her. It's better than walking around with a hard on all the time. The best thing you can do is sit down and talk with her, but make sure you talk about it in a respectful way rather than making her feel like your only after one thing. Let her know by your actions more than anything how much you love her, and if you guys have been dating this long i'm sure she feels comfortable with you by now. Go ahead and just go for it. Your a guy and you have needs and your going to feel this way. Wish you luck!!!!
2006-10-09 08:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bless your heart, Yes you need to talk to your girlfriend, I am sure this is a frustrating time for both of you, but what I believe is That neither of you have chosen to take it upon themselves to say to heck with it lets just do it, Because having a sexual relationship with some one is a totally different world.A wonderful world, particularly when you are completely informed , totally educated , This is where a lot of people get in a real bind be cause they leap with out looking at the consequences. So do your home work talk to everyone who you think can add to your knowledge ( minister, social worker, councillor,parents,) You are an adult and you are trying to behave as an adult would, and I personally say thank you because you care.
2006-10-09 15:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being attracted to your g/f is totally normal and natural. If you guys are making out or something, let things happen, only if she's ready. If you guys haven't done anything like foreplay (oral or just messing around) then do that first. Don't sleep with her until you guys are both comfortable. Don't stress about it. Just go with the flow and if she's ready, you'll know.
2006-10-09 15:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should. Tell her that you love her and she's all you think about. I'd be honest without going into too much detail. She doesn't need to know about your erections. Then just tell her that whenever she's ready to be intimate with you that you just want her to know that you are ready. You aren't trying to pressure her but you just want her to think about it and let you know when the time is right.
2006-10-09 15:22:11 · answer #4 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that since you have been together for 2 years it is more than ok to ask she maybe afraid to say anything to you too. the worst she could say is no!
2006-10-09 15:21:12 · answer #5 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you would like to take the next step in your relationship. The worst she can say is no.
2006-10-09 15:23:28 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you are happy everytime you are with her. Tell her she is so beautiful that you get an erection just looking at her. Doesn't mean anything sexual necessarily, just that you like her so much she has that affect on you..... Good luck.
2006-10-09 15:21:31 · answer #7 · answered by daj11551 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well to tell u the truth it wont to ask her how she feels about this topic mayb shes waitn for u to make the forst move ust ak it dont hurt to ak ok so yeah
2006-10-09 15:25:48 · answer #8 · answered by gabriel g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 2 years should say something... but dont tell her your secret.. that would just scare her off and it would be a waste of a 2 yr relationship... talk to her about it and see what she says
2006-10-09 15:21:43 · answer #9 · answered by dahusld541124 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out for a romantic night and as things lead to one thing who knows maybe you'll get lucky. i'd just do different things to let her know how she makes you feel
2006-10-09 15:22:24 · answer #10 · answered by Brenda H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋