Does anyone know any tricks or special things i can do for my hubby to enhance our sex life...it is starting to get boring to me and i wana make him feel as good as i can...suggestions?
2006-10-09 08:17:55 · 20 answers · asked by â?¥CURiOUSâ?¥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know all the basic "extras" i need detail people !
2006-10-09 08:21:20 · update #1
Mystery is always good. When he comes home from work just tell him to stop at the door, blind fold him. Strip him down and walk him to the bedroom. Lay him down on the bed (face down) and give him a nice back massage. Let him feel your naked body. After, slowly start to kiss his body and concentrate down there. And you can fill in the blanks after that!!!
2006-10-09 08:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by CSI 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is another fun game to try with your lover, both of you need to get undressed. The man should then take a seat in a comfortable chair preferably without armrests, which has been placed in the middle of the room. To make it little more exciting this can be done in a room where you usually don't have sex. The kitchen, garage, basement a hallway, you get the idea. Being exposed and very intimate in a seemingly unromantic location makes it a little difficult at first, but can add a lot of excitement. The woman then sits on his lap, facing him, sliding his penis into herself. Once you find a comfortable position, sit absolutely still for a moment. Relax, look into each other’s eyes, and allow yourself to get used to the closeness. You might even try to synchronize your breathing. Once comfortable the games begin, you need to play with your partner, excite them. Use your hands and your mouth but DO NOT move your hips at all. Focus on your pelvic muscles, contract and relax them to tease your partner even more. (Another reason to do your Kegel exercises!) You've got long hair? Use it to stroke your partner’s chest and neck. Everything is allowed, but DO NOT MOVE YOUR HIPS! Caress, massage, kiss, lick and bite each other. Whoever moves their hips or climaxes first, looses the game. And the price for the winner is - we're sure you can think of something...
2006-10-09 08:21:15 · answer #2 · answered by Sara_V. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lots of things.You probably know his likes and dislikes,etc. So work on those.Do things out of character for you.Ex. Go out and lean over and take his hand.Put it down there! Say see no panties on.Or wear a revealing top or skirt.Watch an erotic tape together and act out what the people are doing. Take a shower together and talk about what turns you on.Email each other from a secure spot and have cyber sex. Endless possibilities!!
2006-10-09 08:24:46 · answer #3 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress up. Toys. Stranger sex is cool. You "meet" in a bar and don't know each other. Have a few drinks, take a cab back to a hotel and have sex. Like a one night stand. Ask what his fantasies are. Good Luck and let loose!
2006-10-09 08:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a nice twist is do use ICE, the good thing happen when you use ice one is it Titan you up and if you use it at the same time you have intercourse it bring a hole new feeling to both of you.
another is to go and get a BDSM starter kit pain can be fun to at the right time.
Good Luck
2006-10-09 08:24:23 · answer #5 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex in public places such as the park or in the car
Try to get someone to record you doin’ the nasty
2006-10-09 08:26:53 · answer #6 · answered by c b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try watching some smut movies trying out new positions and in different parts of the house. wake him in the middle of the night just for a little sex.
2006-10-09 08:20:26 · answer #7 · answered by Brenda H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just want to mix things up. I would just try to do things that are surpising and hopefully he will do the same back.
Mixing things up should add to what you are looking for hopefully.
2006-10-09 08:20:16 · answer #8 · answered by showtimegk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ear nibble, and do it in public men like it when you bite there earlobe while breathing in heavily, but do it in public.
2006-10-09 08:23:22 · answer #9 · answered by Juleette 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Order some toys or clothing and start sharing fantasies!!!
2006-10-09 08:20:29 · answer #10 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋