People brag all the time about their children, friends and spouse. These same people take offense when I brag about the number of sexual partners I have had. What accounts for the double standards?
I like to brag about my sexual history, just like I like to brag about how intelligent I am, how handsome I am, how much money I make, and everything else in my life (since I am so perfect). The only thing I lack is an abundance of friends, and that doesn't bother me because I no longer need to use anybody for anything since I have it all now.
The one thing I still DO use people for is sex. I am not ashamed to say that I have banged over 100 different girls and one guy (I met him through his sister... who I also humped). Sex is great and bragging about it afterwards is even better. I did that all throughout high school and college, and now that I am in my early 20s, I still have a lot to brag about. And my success with women will continue since I will look like a college-aged stud forever.
2006-10-09 08:13:39 · 38 answers · asked by Bedroom Celebrity 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
jasonjas: I am a straight male.
Why do some people assume that:
1. I have STDs just because I am sexually active?
2. I am making this up just because you can't get as much as I do?
2006-10-09 08:19:14 · update #1
Theyre all jealous. If they dont like it they should ignore you. Ignore them.
2006-10-09 11:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well, first, I think we've solved the mystery of why you have so few friends.
Bragging about your children is not the same thing as bragging about your sex life, and it's not a double-standard to say so.
One thing people don't really care for is an egomaniac, and since you refer to the women you "bang" in such vulgar terms, you are only using the sex-life stories to offend and to make yourself look cool.
If you think you're going to keep being the stud forever, you are in for a very ugly awakening. Literally. One of these days, even you will have hair falling out of your head and hair growing out of your nose and ears. Not all that sexy anymore.
It is offensive to talk about your sexual history for soooo many reasons. When you talk about your sexual history, you are also outing any woman you've been with, and the stigma for women who sleep around is much more harsh than for men. It also shows how worthless you find those women, by talking about how great you are and proving that you only used them for your own carnal pleasure.
Since sex is supposed to be more than just a notch in your belt, which you seem to be pretty eager to let loose and whip your pants down, it's offensive when you talk about those women in an offensive manner.
I can only assume either you're lying or you don't spend a lot of time talking to women before you both dive into the sack. After a few minutes of conversation with you, most sober women I know would want to have nothing more to do with you.
2006-10-09 10:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by CrazyChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most people who brag about their sexual conquest are full of it have not done half of what they said they did. Besides, grow up not only is it childish have some diginity in keeping things to yourself. I am in my early 20's as well andmay talk about some things with a personal friend, which is fine, but not to the world. Guys like you give the rest a horrible reputation. As far as being successful that just great but that doesn't mean you get women. I work for a major sports organization and see guys like you all the time, now most of them have lost their jobs and put them selves in a horrible place because of the lust.
2006-10-09 08:20:48 · answer #3 · answered by NFL Legend 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Many people don't want to know that, myself included. Based on your question, I can see that you have over-inflated ego which is a sign of insecurity. No wonder, you don't have a lot of friends.
Eventually, money, looks, job and other things will make no sence, and what will remain is the personality. And here we go, we have only ego and insecurity.
Bragging in general is not a good thing - leave your sexual life to yourself.
2006-10-09 08:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by answering machine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Those who brag most often (note I said most often and not more often) exagerate on things they talk about. It is the only way they know how to feel good about themselves. it is their way of covering the shallowness of their minds and the emptiness of their soul. They do it thinking that it would impress people. It's your way of shouting to the world "please notice me, please." Pathetic.
It is their way, your way, of covering up for your short comings. Braggarts project an image totally opposite of what they're saying. They have twisted tongues because what they say today will be different tomorrow.
Finally it is bad to brag because IT SHOWS NO BREEDING and sadly it reflects on your parents, in their failure to raise you properly.
People like that are better off if made into fertilizer.
Now you know why you do not have friends and any bragging in this venue
will just make you a marked man.
Understand?
2006-10-09 08:35:58 · answer #5 · answered by ang-pogi-ko 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your saying this on the internet, everyone will think your a slut.And besides, 100 girls and a guy and your in early 20's, did you first have sex when you were like 7?And bragging about it is really childish
2006-10-09 08:33:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
because a multitude of sexual partners is not so positive for your image and nothing to be proud of.
you come across as a very shallow person who can't commit to a relationship ( therefore your lack of friends) and who is filling that void by collecting quick sexual adventures.
try making love one day not masturbating on another person you'll know what I'm saying.
2006-10-09 08:37:34 · answer #7 · answered by webby 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A lousy 100 chicks? What a joke. Between Wilt Chamberlain and me we banged 20,001 chicks.
2006-10-09 08:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even mangy Dogs can hump most people aspire to greater achievements. Besides it's quality that counts not quantity, if you were any good maybe one of your partners would stick around.
2006-10-09 08:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by LAUGHING MAGPIE 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would like to encourage your current behavior. It would be clear to women like me -- intelligent and discreet -- that you are a poor prospect. One who needs to brag about sexual history lacks sexual maturity.
2006-10-09 08:25:46 · answer #10 · answered by mediahoney 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Wow........how did you find time to type this while you were s***wing so many girls...WAIT.....did you have the keyboard on her/his back while you were doing him/her doggie style. Hey looking at girls on the web and pulling yourself around the room like a dog with no back legs does not count. You my lad are a prize tit!
Hey but if its true......goog lad! hehe it'll drop off......but its not real is it!
2006-10-09 08:27:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋