I like someone, I mean really like someone. Two other peolpe like me and they are the geeky kind. One of the guys is trying to change for me, and the other gave me flowers. I don't like them, but I feel so bad for them. I hope to ask a guy out, and these two other guys are fighting for me.
2006-10-09 08:02:54 · 11 answers · asked by bandgeak_07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You'll wind up liking someone else if you date one of the guys that likes you. You can't date someone you aren't into, it's just not right. Now on the other hand, I can tell you from experience that the geeky kind of guy will treat you a WHOLE LOT better than the hott kind of guy. And honestly don't we all want a guy who will treat us like we DESERVE to be treated? I think so. Consider the downfalls of the hot guy that you like before you ask him out, don't get yourself into something your not ready for yet. If you know you won't be able to go out with either of the more geeky guys you've got to tell them that you value their friendship and you can't be anything more with them. And when a guy has to change for you to like them, you don't need to be with them because you're making them NOT be true to themselves and thats not good. No matter how hard they try to change for you they're still gonna be the same guy on the inside.
Do what you feel is right for YOU.
Good Luck.
2006-10-09 08:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This situation is really bad. To be honest, what I would do is ask one of my friends to ask the boy I like if he would like me, and if he said "yes" then have your friend tell him you like him, because I always thought it was easier when a boy asked YOU out, not the opposite. If the boy you like says "no" when your friend asks him if he would like you, i say you should tell those two "geeks" that you're just not ready for a relationship, while you're really just waiting for the right boy to come.
2006-10-09 08:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the two guys fighting over you you don't like them and then ask the other guy out. yeah they might be a little crushed but its better than leading the two guys one
2006-10-09 08:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by Syd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means dont go for the one that wants to change for you, he needs to find someone that likes him for who he is not who you want him to be, he would only end up resenting you later. there is nothing you can do if someone likes you and you dont like them, just dont do anything to lead them on.
2006-10-09 08:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about the geeks and go for the hottie
but know that the hottie doesn't like you that much like the one of the two geeks
2006-10-09 08:06:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think your a snob you dont even know them and you are calling them geeky how would you feel if someone called you "GEEK"not very nice of you
2006-10-09 08:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by lita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure they don't cramp your style when you go to ask the guy you really want to go with out.
2006-10-09 08:11:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the one who wants to change for you. he likes you that much to do that for you.
2006-10-09 08:04:53 · answer #8 · answered by sugar n' spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go oput with the guy u like and put this to rest.
2006-10-09 08:05:05 · answer #9 · answered by Justin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the 3rd guy threesome the other two
2006-10-09 08:05:26 · answer #10 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋