my bf has been talking to this girl, which apparently he said he just wanted to piss his ex best friend. what happened was, he used to be really close to this best friend, but one day his best friend just decided to look down on my bf, calling him a loser and talking **** behind his back. my bf was cool about it, but he is kind of revengeful in certain manner when he gets upset. so he decides to talk to this girl more, who his best friend likes. well, knowing that this girl likes my bf all this while, my bf takes advantage of this opportunity. I was kind of cool about it at first, but she seemed to be almost everywhere whenever my bf is at. she knows my relationship with my bf, but she's just coming onto him. i told my bf, that i'm cool with him having all this fun, but just don't lead her on. but the way i see it now, they seemed to be getting closer. and i always have this vibe thingy. it's like, if i feel something is wrong it will always happen what i anticipated.
2006-10-09 08:01:40 · 7 answers · asked by b.z. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
now, i just feel like asking for a time out. but i felt like i can't do so, cos he just fell out with his business partner. gee. can someone advise me on this?
2006-10-09 08:03:09 · update #1
No babe, that is not good. Yes give him a timeout and keep giving it to him. He is going to eventually dig himself in to deep and you are going to be caught in some bull$hit. Move on honey bun, good luck he is a loser no real man would play a game like that baby girl WAKE UP! He obviously doesn't care about your feelings whether you said it was cool or not. Nope, keep it moving doll.
2006-10-09 08:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by nina_ross692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like that he is vengeful. I also don't like that he plays games. Either he's willing to use this girl's attention for some rotten purpose or else he's lying to you about what his real intentions are.
I suppose if you, folks, are between, say, 12 and 15, this behavior may be kind of standard; and all you can do is ask him to knock it off and hope he does. If you're older than that his behavior isn't acceptable, and I'd just tell him I was taking a permanent time out.
2006-10-09 15:07:32 · answer #2 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, time out. What would happen if you were talking to someone else. What if he started showing up everywhere YOU were. What would he think? But know, if he does this to his (ex) best friend, he will do something to you if you two ever break up. Sometimes people just need to grow up and get over it. Move on. life is too short to waste it on stupid people. I'm not sure if that is for him...or for you.
2006-10-09 15:08:35 · answer #3 · answered by Becky F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats one sticky web woven sorry i can't think of anything but that girls hate to be lied to.....good luck and sorry
2006-10-09 15:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask for a time out. If he agrees then you get your answer....
2006-10-09 15:05:22 · answer #5 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u say no, he'll prob get more eager to leave
2006-10-09 15:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah...a time out would probably help
2006-10-09 15:04:25 · answer #7 · answered by rever_a_vous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋