He's a senoir i'm a junior, and he's going to move 20 hours away. WHAT SHOULD I DO? HELP
2006-10-09 07:56:21 · 9 answers · asked by ronaldsmcdonaldc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's part of life Honey! If you really care for this boy, then you want what's best for him. Right now you seem to be more worried about having him around to fulfil YOUR needs.
What he needs right now is a good education, & the support of everyone around him to carry out that goal.
You whinning that he's so far away doesn't help him at all, & in fact it's quite selfish, so suck it up.
The best thing for both of you to do is to break up, & then you can both feel free to find new B/F's & G/F's without feeling guilty.
Either you'll join him at his college later when you graduate high school, or even later on when you both have graduated, & then you can pick up where you both left off if that's what you both want by then.
2006-10-09 08:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let him. Don't try and force him to give up his college and his future for your own selfish reasons. Either the two of you will be able to beat the odds and through communication and trust stay together while so far apart, or you will drift away from each other.
Life goes on.
2006-10-09 07:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to be ok. First of all if you've been together long enough and love each other enough, then you've already got the trust issue built. I was in a very similar position when I was your age, and now we both go to different schools, and have been together for 2 years. It's tough, but you have to be sure he's the only one you want. And you have to trust his decision, and be trustworthy yourself.
2006-10-09 08:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by Ask&Receive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do. are you going to pay his tuition to go to another college? If not, then you have to deal with it. If the relationship is strong no amount of distance can come between you. and just think in a year you will be going away to college. so don't worry about it so much.
2006-10-09 08:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I now it is hard babe, but there is nothing you can do but be very supportive and keep in touch as often as you can. I know it sounds cliche' but it's the truth. Anything else would be wrong and immature, I know you can do better. Be happy and look forward to taking a trip.
2006-10-09 08:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by nina_ross692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 03:00:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a girl or a boy? Some of your other questions talk about girlfriend problems.
2006-10-09 07:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just handle it with grace. It would be impossible for you to move with him.(Unless he wants you to) Just try to control yourself and your feelings for a year. Anyway, you'd see him on Holidays.
2006-10-09 07:59:47 · answer #8 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So..............you are trying to tell me you are a ******?..........
2006-10-09 08:00:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋