I have a guy friend and we've been dating for 8 months now.. I've found out I am already falling inlove with him. i wanna talk with him about my feelings but I don't have enough courage. I wanna ask him if he has feelings for me too. That's all I wanna know this time.
Considering the lenght of time we've dated, do you think he has feelings for me too? How could I tell that he also wants or love me?
2006-10-09 07:55:38 · 12 answers · asked by tata 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would just ask. You have been together long enough that it should be asked. He has to feel something if he has stayed this long. It is a good sign, but tell him you want to know how he feels about you, or where the relationship in his mind, is going. Or if you like, just tell him how you feel, and he will certainly let you know then where he stands. Don't pressure him too much though. Men can have lots of trouble communicating their feelings. Does he show you in other ways? Good Luck! I hope this helps.
2006-10-09 07:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by poisonivy4913 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just talk to him about it because it's better to have your feelings out in the open instead of holding it all in and waiting until the very last minute because then it might be too late. Dont make him think that he has to feel the same or that he has to tell you right away just let him know how you feel and give him time to think about it on his own. Maybe he wont even need time and he will be relieved when you talk about it first because you never know if he has been waiting to tell you but he just doesnt know how. Good Luck with this though I hope it goes well!!!
2006-10-09 15:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by cheergirl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Love takes time. If you are having feelings after the eight months you have been dating him then you be close enough to him to talk to him about it. I'm sure you know all the particulars to know how to approach the subject so don't live in limbo, ASK THE MAN.
2006-10-09 15:03:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him about your feelings. After eight months of dating he should know if he feels the same way about you. If he doesn't then I think it is time to move on so you can find a man that truly deserves you. Good Luck!
2006-10-09 15:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it's time for you two to talk and find out if you both want to take the relationship to the next level. Yes, there's an element of risk involved but that's what comes with dating and being in a relationship. Sounds to me like you have a fairly safe risk in asking this guy if he wants to take this to the next level. I hope it works out for you.
2006-10-09 14:58:25 · answer #5 · answered by Red1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should talk with him and ask him how he feels since it has been 8 months he should know one way or another
2006-10-09 14:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go ahead, tell him that you love him, a'm sure he will answer you with reciprocity. Eight month is a long period, you have proveded your feelings. The main is love each other and be Happy.
good luck!!!
2006-10-09 15:15:00 · answer #7 · answered by cahta_best 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't find your answer here online. You need to ask him, sometimes though men have a hard time to tell you if they do or don't so don't pressure him. Sometimes though they show you in there own way.
2006-10-09 14:58:07 · answer #8 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
usually a girl knows from the get go if she is turned on by someone and i think its the same for men..seeing how you guys have been dating for 8mths that is a good indicater that he has deep feelings for you.. just ask him..
2006-10-09 14:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by sissybombay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
8 month might not be enogh time for him to truely love you, but i think you should talk to him about it, understanding that he might not feel the same way
2006-10-09 14:58:04 · answer #10 · answered by Ellis S 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋