2006-10-09 07:49:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Losers...... Once a cheater always a cheater...Like my beloved mother use to say "If you're gonna continue to sleep with a dog, don't complain when ya get flea's....."
2006-10-09 07:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on a lot of factors. Each example would have to be considered individually. I don't think a single pat opinion would work here.
How long were they a couple? What was the relationship like before the cheating? What is the person's reason for forgiving, etc.?
2006-10-09 14:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by Calina 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that they are probably really in love with their significant other. However, they need to prepare for their significant other to cheat again.
2006-10-09 15:00:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it definatly depends on the couple. But people do make mistakes. Cheating is one of the worst things you can do to someone, it's like saying that they arn't good enough for you anymore or if they are far away, they arn't worth waiting for. But if you can find it in your heart to forgive someone of something like that, then I'd say that's love. Of course there are the execptions; dumb people just wanting to be in a relationship and contol issues. But for the most part, I'd say thoes people are the kinds of people worth loving and having in your life.
2006-10-09 14:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by Ask&Receive 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater by forgiving him/her lets them know that the next time it happens they'll be forgiven again. I wouldn't forgive them I would move on with my life. remember theres to many diseases to be had for a little bit of fun and pleasure.
2006-10-09 14:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by Brenda H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgive maybe, but I doubt they'll ever forget. The trust has been broken, the betrayal and hurt and pain has been inflicted. They might want to cling to the cheater because it's more painful to let go, but they'll never forget and will usually do a passive-aggressive punishment on the cheater.
2006-10-09 14:52:05 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That depends on the situation...was it a one time thing? astanger fly by night...was it someone they see or were seeing all the time? I think they are strong and know what they want...but, if it happens again the significant other isn't serious enough. I believe in making mistakes....I forgave my ex for doing it to me, but she left anyway, apparently she wasn't serious about our relationship from the start.
2006-10-09 14:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It takes a lot to be able to say you're sorry and even more to say you forgive them. They're very brave and I think they're on the right path to happiness. However, I don't think I'd continue the relationship w/ my SO if they did...unless I was married then I could have to give it more consideration.
2006-10-09 14:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i think a guy should never forgive their gf for cheating - but when it is the guy that cheats the gf should forgive him , because that is what guys do - as long as they don't do it alot
2006-10-09 14:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
They must be very loving and understanding individuals, although maybe not the brighest bulbs in the drawer.
2006-10-09 14:52:19 · answer #10 · answered by Gene Rocks! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋